[SIZE= medium]I ride with a group on Sunday mornings. It’s pretty casual and we stop to wait for the slowest people at certain points etc so it’s a good group for newbies. [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]I’m the fastest rider but I keep it in check as I’m not training for anything (just keeping fit this year) and want to keep the bunch (basically) together. [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]Lately we’ve had a really obnoxious guy join us. He’s an Alpha male who’s loud, got a ready (ribald) wit, the flashest gear (top of the line Scott with Di2 and DuraAce wheels, drives to the ride in his AMG Mercedes), rides off the front, tells us to hurry up, made fun of a slow/new guy etc.[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]A Narcissist basically.[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]He’s mates with one of the long time riders (who I thought would have better friends!) so had a foothold in there. [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]What to do about him? [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]1/ don’t ride with them[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]2/ try to ignore him (very hard to do)[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]3/ undermine him to the others[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]4/ beat him up every hill [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]5/ tell him to tone it down (I did a little bit but he’s a pretty daunting guy)[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]6/ push him down a bank while no one else is around[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]7/ ??! [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]BBB[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]I’m the fastest rider but I keep it in check as I’m not training for anything (just keeping fit this year) and want to keep the bunch (basically) together. [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]Lately we’ve had a really obnoxious guy join us. He’s an Alpha male who’s loud, got a ready (ribald) wit, the flashest gear (top of the line Scott with Di2 and DuraAce wheels, drives to the ride in his AMG Mercedes), rides off the front, tells us to hurry up, made fun of a slow/new guy etc.[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]A Narcissist basically.[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]He’s mates with one of the long time riders (who I thought would have better friends!) so had a foothold in there. [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]What to do about him? [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]1/ don’t ride with them[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]2/ try to ignore him (very hard to do)[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]3/ undermine him to the others[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]4/ beat him up every hill [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]5/ tell him to tone it down (I did a little bit but he’s a pretty daunting guy)[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]6/ push him down a bank while no one else is around[/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]7/ ??! [/SIZE]
[SIZE= medium]BBB[/SIZE]