i use a sony set that go behind your head and have ear loops that go over your ears. i have had pretty good luck with them. they stay in place sound pretty good. i always have problems with ear buds that why i bought these.
the problem with the if no one had guns post is, the law abbiding citizens would be unarmed and the criminals would still have them and so would the gov't thats the problem. many people have been disarmed and then taken over by there gov't.