22 year old guy wanting to have sex with 16 year old girl

[Dewayne2]

Hey. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/)

 

[Cycler6n]

thats horrible, I'm not saying its all his fault, she shouldn't be hitting on a 22 year old perv. but a guy like that should be locked up for a while, and the girl should talk to her parents, or the parents talk to her.

 

[Bro Deal]

Wouldbe playa meets with teenage skank, who is to blame?

Without knowing more about the two you cannot say. The guy might be a perv, but the girl may have been screwing boys since she was twelve. The world is ****ed up these days. A lot of the traditional mores of the past are hard to apply to the present. Since the age difference is not too huge, I guess I don't have much of an opinion about this.

 

[janiejones]

Just say they stay together for the next three years, she would be 19 and he would be 25 - would it be a problem then - I don't think so.

You are allowed to "do it" when your 16, and let's face it 22 isn't very old either.

 

[nns1400]

Just say they stay together for the next three years, she would be 19 and he would be 25 - would it be a problem then - I don't think so.

You are allowed to "do it" when your 16, and let's face it 22 isn't very old either.

People. It's the internet, so you have to automatically figure the guy's like 38 or something and the girl is probably 13. Or the "girl" is a cop.

(I think 16 is still considered "under age" in the US.)

Fromt these posts, however, I think we can safely assume now that Bro Deal is the guy and janie is the girl.

 

[sogood]

Did somebody suggest in a separate thread that this forum is dying?

http://www.cycling.net.au/t426413.html

 

[nns1400]

Did somebody suggest in a separate thread that this forum is dying?

http://www.cycling.net.au/t426413.html

Clearly, the forum is not dying, it is just suffering brain damage!

 

[Bro Deal]

Did somebody suggest in a separate thread that this forum is dying?

http://www.cycling.net.au/t426413.html

If beer commercials have taught us anything, they have taught us that sex is a sure way to fire up interest. All we need to do to save the grand tours forum is start a few threads about hot podium girls. Pictures would be helpful.

 

[nns1400]

If beer commercials have taught us anything, they have taught us that sex is a sure way to fire up interest. All we need to do to save the grand tours forum is start a few threads about hot podium girls. Pictures would be helpful.

You, for one, need to upgrade your own avatar to keep things lively. You are no match for CrankyFeet at the moment....

 

[janiejones]

Fromt these posts, however, I think we can safely assume now that Bro Deal is the guy and janie is the girl.

well done Sherlock!

 

[Bro Deal]

You, for one, need to upgrade your own avatar to keep things lively. You are no match for CrankyFeet at the moment....

That thought occurred to me about an hour ago. I think the arms race is on.

 

[nns1400]

That thought occurred to me about an hour ago. I think the arms race is on.

Gee, Bro, you've got some long legs.

 

[mongooseboy]

hey...im 25 and date an 18 year old...and if ya knew us you would think we were both about 12 LOL.

but, I didnt even know her before she was 18....that might make a difference, i wouldnt be hanging out with any 16 year olds. yuck.

depending on the state, that guy might be able to do as he pleases...

 

[janiejones]

hey...im 25 and date an 18 year old...and if ya knew us you would think we were both about 12 LOL.

but, I didnt even know her before she was 18....that might make a difference, i wouldnt be hanging out with any 16 year olds. yuck.

depending on the state, that guy might be able to do as he pleases...

have you told your girlfriend this - "excuse me babe, umm, if you were two years younger, well...yuck"

as if....

 

[Hypnospin]

yes, do not forget the popularity of violence as well, which is even more condoned and far less censored by the entertainment media industry.
perhaps this forum should be renamed the 'bloody podium girls box' in the interest of spurring more involvement...
seriously, let us remeber the time honored gentlemen-about-town rule, keep your amorous relations to half your age plus seven. note this allows gents to escort younger women as age is aquired. seems like the bloke in question lost sight of the legalities involved with consorting with minors, big consequences can come of this, including legalities including statutory rape and sex offender registry status to name just a couple.

If beer commercials have taught us anything, they have taught us that sex is a sure way to fire up interest.

 

[stevebaby]

hey...im 25 and date an 18 year old...and if ya knew us you would think we were both about 12 LOL.

but, I didnt even know her before she was 18....that might make a difference, i wouldnt be hanging out with any 16 year olds. yuck.

depending on the state, that guy might be able to do as he pleases...

If she's in Texas she probably has 4 kids by now.

 

[Hypnospin]

yet another warranted slander towards yanks from you?
don't you have a rickshaw to catch? or a push bike perhaps?
actualy, texas is not the primary source of the worlds' problems in this regard, it has merely been adopted to further some kinda cowboy image and to justify the exploitative public use of twangy accent.

If she's in Texas she probably has 4 kids by now.

 

[stevebaby]

yet another warranted slander towards yanks from you?
don't you have a rickshaw to catch? or a push bike perhaps?
actualy, texas is not the primary source of the worlds' problems in this regard, it has merely been adopted to further some kinda cowboy image and to justify the exploitative public use of twangy accent.

IIRC, the local sheriff in Waco was asked why he didn't intervene when informed of David Koresh's abuse of young girls.
His reply? "Girls can get married here at 13. I didn't think it was a big deal."

 

[Hypnospin]

legal age for marriage in texas is a perhaps more socialy acceptable 14, but only with parental consent...

IIRC, the local sheriff in Waco was asked why he didn't intervene when informed of David Koresh's abuse of young girls.
His reply? "Girls can get married here at 13. I didn't think it was a big deal."

 

[mydaughterchili]

Hey. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/)

a dad of a 1 year old girl has the typical freak out phase. just remember that most girls will try to marry someone with the same characteristics that her dad has... kind of a stretch for my wife but oh well...

my advice always whisper in you daughters ear so no one else can hear while you are watching tv or someother unexpected time how much she means to you, why she is so special to you, and how much you love her. and this whole thing will be a non issue... congrats on the 1 year old girl!