i am posting because it seems my current bike is too small for me (though the original lbs that sold it to me doesn't agree)-I have checked out various fit calculators, that say I need a 56-57cm frame size, with a combined stem and top tube length of 69cm. My current frame is a 55cm, and my tt length is also 55 with a 12cm stem, or total of 67cm. My lbs agreed that I need a longer reach, and also came up with the 69cm "ideal" measurement. They want me to put a 130mm stem on the bike. I am wary of putting a 130mm stem on the bike, because it seems like an extreme size for a stem...will it drastically change the handling? Will it be too flexy? If the seat tube and head tube are 1cm short for me, could having a +tilt on a stem make up for this? I really can't afford to buy another bike (though I'm happy with my components and could maybe just buy another frame), and I like my bike. The rationale for a stem change is that my upper shoulders, neck, and midback have been hurting if I go on rides for any decent duration. Ideas??