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"Nancy Young" <
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> Well, she needed a slap. Hope you slapped some sense into her.
> I have an idea, people want to get cutesy with names, change their
> own name and quit saddling their children with it. That is lame.
I don't think I changed her mind. The thing is, I totally understand
giving your child a unique or ethnic name, we did it with our kids.
But to take a name and just rewrite it so it will be different, or
something, just screams illiterate and unwed.
I was saddled with a "unique" spelling for my name my whole life, and
although I learned to deal with it and I wouldn't change it now, it
caused a whole lot of grief and is still mispronounced most of the time
and misspelled. New and substitute teachers always paused when they got
to my name on the roster, the whole deal. We didn't want to do that to
our kids. So we tried to look for unique/unusual names that were still
recognizeable and could be easily pronounced from reading them.
We were surprised that so many people mispronounced Amira, though.
Even though it was an ethnic name, and because of the different
alphabets we were transliterating, we thought it was pretty easy to
pronounce from sight. We thought it was safe to give our daughters
ethnic names, since girls with foreign names tend to be seen as having
pretty names rather than strange names. The boys got their Arabic names
as middle names.
Regards,
Ranee
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