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[email protected] (Tom Keats) wrote:
> In article <
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> (Trudi Marrapodi) writes:
>
> > I think much of this is true, but the fear some motorists have for bicycles because "I never
> > know what they're gonna do" has to fairly be taken into account. I have had nice, decent
> > little-old-lady friends of mine express this anxiety, and frankly I can't blame them for not
> > wanting to share the road with someone whose actions are unpredictable.
> >
> > Think of how much you'd enjoy sharing the road with a motorist who didn't use turn signals or
> > lights
>
> I often do.
I had a feeling someone would say that. ;-)
> Also, drivers who shortcut the wrong way around neighbourhood traffic circles, or who notice a
> parking spot over on the wrong side of the street and immediately bee-line for it regardless of
> oncoming or upcoming traffic, or who don't come to a complete stop and let pedestrians cross while
> doing their right-on-red thing, or who roll through stop lines, or who lean a bunch of 2x4s over
> the side of their little utility trailer so as to clip unsuspecting cyclists from behind as they
> pass them, etc.
Exactly. So, if these people are horses' butts in a motor vehicle, are they any less of a horse's
butt on a bike?
> So, a lot of drivers don't have much to be proud of, either -- in spite of the good examples set
> by better drivers.
Right. The trouble is, some people have come to expect unpredictability in cyclists because they
have had experience with so many unpredictable cyclists, because the habits of many cyclists are
even worse, in part because they are so poorly educated as to how to do it right.
> I've come to the cynical conclusion that trying to change the world by being a "good example" just
> makes suckers of us.
Well then, what are we to do? Be a BAD example? How does that help matters any?
> I still believe in doing The Right/Good Thing, and not doing The Wrong/Bad Thing (even though I
> sometimes fail). But I'll do it just for my own conscience, and let other ppl deal with their own
> consciences. But from where I sit, drivers in general have no moral position from which to
> criticize cyclists in general.
Oh, they don't--but that doesn't mean they aren't often right about what some cyclists do,
sad to say.
> I believe there's nothing constructive to be gained in cyclists and drivers complaining about each
> other's behaviour; or complaining about their /own/ behaviours & images, for that matter.
Well, if they'd give a thoughtful listen to what the other is saying, maybe it'd make them think
twice before doing stupid things again, when before they didn't think such things were a problem.
> I guess to improve the respective images of both cyclists and drivers, we'd have to alter human
> nature ;-)
Probably, but we can always try open communication!
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Trudi "Just like Pagliacci did..."--Smokey Robinson
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