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Andrew Price
Guest
> Thanks for all of the kind messages. It really helps. The aspect I
> have trouble with is that a cyclist would do such a thing to another cyclist.
>
As Theo [sort of] said, the ability and inclination to ride a bike are not
universal indicators of mental stability or decent behaviour among our
species.
[... but they'll do until some better indicators get here...]
As a 54 yo roadie I [and the entire complement of this ng] feel for you;
when someone goes down we all in some small way share the pain. The good
news is that your physical injuries will probably heal quickly.
its the mental aspect of this that troubles me - that bogan needs to
understand just how stupid he was and the legal system is a very poor
distributor of wisdom and a less than successful corrector of poor human
behaviour.
This will be hard to accept but beyond getting your out of pockets paid for
and trying to ensure he can now see the malicious stupidity of his ways, you
will need to let this go, as a kindness to yourself, without in any way
"going soft" on what he did.
Immerse yourself amongst those with better natures, however they travel. You
were just unlucky enough to encounter the really small percentage of
malicious humanity in a mad moment.
A really good supportive cycling bunch may help - reflect on the nature and
kindness of the vast majority of cyclists[1].
best, andrew
[1] exclude bunch sprints, different rules apply.