Bob (this one) wrote:
> Works 100% of the time in my experience. Crappy to the server? Crappy
> human being.
>
> Hard to tell which defines the other.
>
> http://tinyurl.com/o5c5e
I am someone who requires extra attention. I go through salsa, water,
iced tea rather quickly, and I really appreciate wait staff being on
top of not letting me go without unless they are obviously really busy.
I got good service at lunch and tipped $6 on a $22.xx check. I am
always exceedingly polite and warm to the servers too. Thanking them
often, and with a sincere smile.
If it weren't for the fact that I ran out of salsa twice, it would have
been $7. They had a lot of customers. On occasions where it's dead,
and they have more time to provide better service, I make sure to tip
35-40% or more. I am applying the Golden Rule in a way. I treat them
the way that I feel would be fair and just of the roles were reversed.
I feel that I would deserve to be tipped commensurate with the degree
and quality of service I provided. I want the business relationship to
be one of mutual respect. Lord knows most economic relationships in
the USA don't follow that regime.
A few of the servers at that particular restaurant are onto the fact
that when I get perfect service, I tip accordingly, and that's
something that's appealing to them. Pretty much all the Mexican
immigrant waiters try to do things that way (and I'm pretty damned sure
all of them are documented as I know the owner's reputation) because
they have yet to sour on the American dream, something that many
native-born Americans no longer have because they see their economic
relations with the society as downwardly mobile, whereas recent legal
immigrants from south of the border perceive their status as upwardly
mobile.
I often joke that I can't have a conversation that doesn't soon evolve
into one about food. Here, my post has gone toward another passion,
political economy.
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> Pastorio
--Bryan