Hi folks! After riding a mountain bike for many years, my partner (who's an avid road cyclist - gran fondos, very long endurance races, etc) has finally convinced me to make the switch to a road bike so we can ride together (my mountain bike is way too slow!). So, about two weeks ago I bought my first ever road bike.
My problem: while I find my bike very comfortable position-wise, there are a few things that are making it not the easiest transition for me and I'm hoping for some suggestions or tips. He wants me to be this pro cyclist right away but going from a mtn bike to road bike means I'm giving up a lot of my regular comforts.
-Kick stand! Every time I have to stop for some reason, my bike falls over. Maybe I'm dumb and am missing something, but even when locking it to run into a store quickly, I can't actually get it to stand up while leaning against a post or whatever.
-I miss my basket! I want to move my basket from my mtn bike to my road bike, just to have for trips to the grocery store, etc. It comes off so I can take it off for bigger rides.
-I would like to have my mirror as I already don't feel totally safe on the roads of my very big city.
Are these three things totally out of the question with a road bike??
As for riding comfort:
-My right elbow is killing me after 10 minutes.
-I'm *very* small and even the smallest cycling shorts (I've got liners) have chamois that are too big for me and rub. This is an issue for the lady bits! (I have a very expensive saddle that I've been using for about a year and have now put onto my road bike, so I don't think it's the saddle.)
-Also because of me being very small, my hands don't easily wrap around the handles to use the breaks and gears and I end up being really chaffed on the part between my thumb and index finger.
Am I just a total wimp?? I made it 6 blocks before turning around today because I was just really frustrated. I'm not used to these issues on my mtn bike and for some reason they're really bugging me on this one. Any suggestions or tips would be really appreciated!! Thanks!