Agreed there is no good answer. What you have to do first is measure your sit bone distance, most bike shops should have this ability, or you can sit on a block of styrofoam or memory foam in a lean position similar to riding your bike, sit for about a minute naked, do not take pictures of yourself doing this, and let your entire body weight push into the foam, when you get off the block there should be two indentations, those are where your sit bones dented the foam, measure from the center of one indentation to the other in CM's and write that down, then look for a saddle with that width. This will limit the hunting dramatically.
I happen to like Fizik (Arione) saddles with the flex wings, but that's just me. I got a Specialized saddle and I don't like that one even though it was highly rated, so that shows you that even a highly rated saddle may not work, though it didn't work for me it might work for you. Selle is another brand that makes great saddles as does Pro Logo.
Unfortunately there is no easy way other than to get those measurements and test ride and make sure you get a saddle from someplace that will allow you to return within 30 days if you don't like it.
