"Richard Periut" <
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> Vox Humana wrote:
>
> > "Nancy Young" <
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> >
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> >>Richard Periut wrote:
> >>
> >>>Nancy Young wrote:
> >>
> >>>>>What? And risk getting a friggin invertebrate in a jacket and tie? I guess you are not that
> >>>>>concerned for your son's health.
> >>>>>
> >>>>>Don't judge a book by its cover.
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>I disagree. I don't think gut feelings should be ignored. I mean that in both ways, good or
> >>>>bad.
> >>>>
> >>>>nancy
> >>>
> >>>Ah, but now one must get into the semantics of what creepy is?
> >>>
> >>>Rich
> >>
> >>I'm really not sure what you mean. At any rate, someone is creepy to me that I would not want
> >>examining me or kissing me or alone in an elevator with me. Or examining my kid. Just a gut
> >>feeling that something is not right. Everyone has those feelings, just depends how you pay
> >>attention to them.
> >
> >
> > If someone seems creepy to you, then it is probably best to find another doctor. I say this not
> > because there is likely to be an issue with the doctor, but because it will be an impediment in
> > your relationship with
the
> > doctor. Creepy is relative. I find fundamentalist preachers creepy. I think that Dr. T. Barry
> > Braselton is sort of creepy. I doubt that
either
> > example is likely to do anything inappropriate. Sometimes people seem creepy because we don't
> > understand their culture or because of
prejudices
> > that we have learned. My assumption about the comment concerning the pediatrician is that the
> > poster was insinuating that the doctor was gay
and
> > therefore was likely to molest the child. This is an example of bias
that
> > is false, but widely perpetuated. Therefore, while the poster might
find
> > the doctor creepy, there is no rational basis for the concern. The real problem, as I see it, is
> > that the person walks away from the
relationship
> > labeling the doctor bad instead of walking away realizing that the fault lies within himself.
> >
> >
>
> If it was that, the insinuation was not that clear, then I agree 100%. However, most pedophiles
> don't behave like that with adults around.
>
> If it was because of other gestures or looks, what's important is that the person is competent and
> knows what he/she is doing.
>
I don't know what else the comments could have meant but I would be open to suggestions.