Tony B <
[email protected]> wrote:
> Rob Morley wrote:
> > On Sun, 22 Jun 2008 13:38:35 +0100
> > Tony B <[email protected]> wrote:
> >
> >> NewRiderPS wrote:
> >>
> >>> Sounds to me like the mother allowed the child out on her own, when
> >>> she should not have
> >> Why should 5 yo kids not be allowed out on their own (car
> >> free)doorstep?
> >>
> > Risk of massive head trauma?
> >
> That happens indoors too - I understand stairs are particularly dangerous..
>
> Point being, with obvious due concern and sympathy for this case, kids
> of five are OK being outdoors. Mine are/were and plenty of others too.
> Some kids have accidents; I'm glad every day that mine have been OK so
> far. I myself almost lost a hand due to 7yo arsing about doing something
> I shouldn't have been doing (my mum must have been in bits, but I
> hardly remember the incident).
>
> Today though, parents are keeping kids out of "danger" to the point of
> caging them. Not ideal is it? So, I like to challenge any and every
> reference to kids not belonging outdoors due to "danger" - outdoors is
> precisely where kids should be. It's the things that people see as
> reasons for keeping them in that should be addressed. Imprisonment is
> not the solution.
Hear hear!
Certain activities are best avoided as the obvious health risks outweigh
any potential health benefits. My not-quite-five year old daughter's not
allowed to play in the road due to bad sight lines caused by parked
cars, she's welcome to play on the pavement and in the back garden. When
she's rather older, we'll probably let her play down by the river. We'll
not let her play on the eight lane road that slices through the valley,
no matter how much she protests that dodging the cars is good exercise
for the heart and the brain.
One could argue that 15 year old kids shouldn't be allowed out on their
bicycles due to the risk of massive head trauma. In actual fact, the
benefits, as may possibly have been mentioned on this group once or
twice before, enormously outweigh the risks.
Cheers,
Luke
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