I wrestled with that for a while, but I concluded that I really do think she's "wonderful" because I was totally happy before all this happened. Plus, it's been several weeks and the loneliness is pretty much gone - I could start over without major grief... I really just think that she'll be a tough one to replace.JohnO said:Painful question to ask yourself - do you want her back because she's wonderful, or do you want her back because she ditched you and you don't like the thought of any girl chucking you out? Keep in mind that if she's just been gone a few weeks, you're feeling particularly lonely.
I can think of more than one occasion in the past when I wished I had answered that question honestly. Would have saved myself a lot of grief later.
Jene, for reasons too complicated to go into, I am 100% positive that this is not true. I wasn't positive of this a few weeks ago, but because of our conversations over the past several weeks, and because she can't fart without me hearing about it through our network of friends, there is no way she is banging or trying to bang some other dude. I'd bet dollars to donuts on this.