CAMPYBOB said:Next time you're out on a fast ride with the boys, see if you ever overhear anyone saying, "Gee, my new wheels are flexy! It's REALLY cool! They're great! I wish they were just a bit flexier though. Maybe I should get out my spoke wrench and loosen them up a bit more to get that ultra-plush ride I've be so desiring! After all...I 'only' need stiffness when I enter and exit a corner...and when sprinting...and when climbing...and maybe fast descending...and possibly while just plain going at it hard.".
Yeah...you let me know when that happens, willya?
I'll go with my experience over the **** I read here every day.
http://www.sheldonbrown.com/rinard/wheel/index.htm
Damon Rinard seems to agree with your conclusion: "Is it possible for wheels to be too stiff?
Never! How could infinite lateral stiffness be bad?
Is it possible for wheels to be too too flexible?
Maybe. Control issues? Contribute to speed wobble?"
Damon is talking about and measuring lateral stiffness. 140 wheels measured in his efforts. See:
http://www.sheldonbrown.com/rinard/wheel/data.htm
Lateral stiffness is great and more of it is good too: along as methods chosen to attain it don't compromise durability and other aspects of the wheel that make them desirable. As an example, I would accept 5% less lateral stiffness to attain 25% more durability. I didn't make up this example; it comes from tests and measurements done by reputable sources: Jobst Brandt (author of "The Bicycle Wheel") and Sapim (a manufacturer of high quality stainless steel spokes).
My experience and limited testing agrees with Damon Rinard, Jobst Brandt, and Sapim. I have built over 1,000 wheels and repaired a like number + I have ridden over 250,000 miles in my 50+ years of riding.
The OP seemed to be talking about radial stiffness. Most things done to get more stiffness radially also effect lateral stiffness.