We tried to have a discussion on the topic on ancient history but it was finally closed down. The problem was that the posters somehow felt constrained to "set matters straight" about themselves prior to posting on the topic. We were getting stuff such as, "Personally as a hetero male I think that....", "I'm not gay but I think the Greeks blah, blah, blah,"
So, the lady in charge decided all of this could be offensive to any of the gay posters who were maybe being made to feel they had something to be ashamed of.
Then I recall once doing Plato's symposium in a tutorial. There was this huge black guy who had been reading the text beforehand and found the whole thing hugely amusing. As we went in, he kept winking and grinning and elbowing the rest of us. Then, when I read it myself I was kind of shocked too.
It was a totally different culture, of course. It's also important to remember that this same bonding you describe took place between women. Sapho had her own small band of young female students and, to this day, women from all countries visit the island of Lesbos.
In closing, I still think the best advice Fred C ever got was that idea about locking himself in a hotel room with some nymphomaniacs.
And the funniest comment I ever heard was in relation to the poor guy who was accused of being a transvestite because his signature had an image of a woman's high heeled shoes.
There are folks with vivid imaginations on this forum.
So, the lady in charge decided all of this could be offensive to any of the gay posters who were maybe being made to feel they had something to be ashamed of.
Then I recall once doing Plato's symposium in a tutorial. There was this huge black guy who had been reading the text beforehand and found the whole thing hugely amusing. As we went in, he kept winking and grinning and elbowing the rest of us. Then, when I read it myself I was kind of shocked too.
It was a totally different culture, of course. It's also important to remember that this same bonding you describe took place between women. Sapho had her own small band of young female students and, to this day, women from all countries visit the island of Lesbos.
In closing, I still think the best advice Fred C ever got was that idea about locking himself in a hotel room with some nymphomaniacs.
And the funniest comment I ever heard was in relation to the poor guy who was accused of being a transvestite because his signature had an image of a woman's high heeled shoes.
There are folks with vivid imaginations on this forum.
Don Shipp said:Spartan boys were kept hungry so that they had to steal. They were severely punished if caught, the idea being that they leaned to be stealthy and good at night fighting. The boys were also required to have boy-friends, the rationale behind this was that they they would fight all the harder if the person next to them was a lover.
The Greeks did have a lot of ways to encourage male "bonding" and a lot of reasons for justifying it, but the bottom line was that they just went in for that sort of thing.
Not that there's anything wrong with it, of course.