It is very uncomfortable at first, but I had to experiment so much, and finally found out that your sit bones should be on the pads that are made for them. Humans are generally used to sitting on the back of our legs, but when you cycle you must sit on your sit bones, or you will destroy your penis when you sit on your perinium. That said when you ride on your sit bones, your family jewels are above the seat. I had to goto the LBS and got fitted and boy it made a difference, not comfortable at first, but you get used to it the more you cycle. Hope this helps