On Thu, 11 Mar 2004 17:58:02 -0800, kalanamak <
[email protected]>
wrote:
>modom wrote:
>
>> This doesn't seem to follow. You are talking to an
>> imaginary modom, not me.
>
>Our petit cuisses de grenouille has a tendency to grab the
>odd subject (even more oddly, having to do with grocery
>stores as a rule) and get all het up about it, while
>twisting his/her knickers up with a steadfastly
>incorrectible misinterpretation. One is reminded of the old
>story of the man who's right leg has a fight with his left.
>A for apatheic people working in stores, there are mouth-
>breathers in many public service jobs. They serve as a
>reminder to count one's lucky stars.
Please don't condescend in French. Many don't understand
this. (BTW, it's cuisse de grenouille -- singular). My
objections come up both in connection with grocery store
(clerks) and restaurants (wait staff). This group often
produces long threads of anecdotal material to illustrate
how stupid, rude, lazy, uninformed, and generally sub-normal
those in service jobs are. Particularly in contrast to their
own dear enlightened, meticulously polite, graceful, and
discriminating selves. This is, indeed, one of the things
that pushes my buttons. And I am consistently surprised at
how little support my position ever gets. I have certainly
experienced bad and exasperating service. I just don't think
it's fair to infer an entire character from one 5-minute
encounter.
As for misinterpretation, I cut this from another of my
posts on the subject --
>"...tried in vain to look up my veggies..." "Her tragic
>look..." "...bar code to the rescue!..." "I pipe
>cheerfully.... She searched and searched." "...her eyes
>grow sheets of Plexiglass and her posture displays the same
>lack of attention I've seen in a dachshund with a full
>belly." "The dear child at the register..."
Think about it this way. Would *you* like to be so
described? Is there a gentler, or at least less personal way
to put this? "I can't believe a store clerk wouldn't know
the difference between a lime and a kiwi" would generate a
lively enough thread. In this benighted corner of Virginia,
I nearly always have to explain an artichoke to *somebody*,
incl. other customers. I don't take it as a signal the
questioner is a cretin.