On Mon, 22 Mar 2004 09:00:02 +0000, [email hidden] (Nick Kew)
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Whingin' Pom said:Quoted message said:> Too far away for me to hear them ;-)
Bah. Not funny, you lot. Height discrimination is alive
and well,
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:
Completely agree with you. As a tall bloke, I get loads
of dumb remarks regarding the weather, possible causes of
height e.g. growbags, odorous feet etc.
Interesting to hear that from up there. But all the stats
say tall men have the advantage. Look at the "top end" of
the overpaid businesses - lawyers, bankers, "gravy train"
industries - and it's overwhelmingly dominated by the tall.
ISTR a study revealing an average-pay gap of about 30% for
8 inches of height in men (but not in women; they're
allowed to be short).
Blimey. Looks like I've missed my calling. The work of a
research assistant hardly attracts top dollar. I reckon
it's a damn sight more interesting than being a fat-cat
boss, though.
Quoted message said:And how many men of 6 foot or less would make a credible
candidate, let alone win an election, for head of a
democratic state? That's really revealing of subconscious
prejudices in a general population.
Or an indication involved of the prejudices of a
manipulating media, particularly in an age where style is
prized over content and the "ideal woman" looks, IMO,
dangerously malnourished.
It would be interesting to see a list of heights of world
leaders for the last 100 years.
Quoted message said:Or look at personal ads. How many girls want a shortarse?
They all want a six-foot-something.
<gratuitous smutty remark> Or a shortarse *with* a six-foot
something...
Joking apart, again, this is indicative of the way that the
"ideal body" is presented by the media. Anything towards the
extremes, either short or tall, is derided for not being
part of the norm. The "ideal male" physique probably does
tend toward the upper end of the "accepted norms". People
like me are far outside of that.
My personal favourite preconception is that of "big=stupid
and clumsy". If someone assumes that of me, they are in for
a shock, after I've used it to my own advantage. :-)
Quoted message said:Anyway, I speak from somewhere middling. I'm marginally
below average in my own country (UK), but lived several
years in Italy where that was reversed:-)
Do they have the same cultural expectations of height as
they have in the UK?
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:It's probably the same at the other end of the bell
curve.
I'm not sure if that's really true: comments like the ones
you get sound like a defensive reflex when you're looming
over someone.
Possibly, but that's not an excuse for being downright rude.
Quoted message said:Noone feels threatened or inferior[1] in the presence of a
shortarse.
Dunno about that. I've had some very dodgy moments with
short blokes wanting to pick a fight with me in pubs. Me,
I'd rather drink in peace. I'm not much good in a punch-up
despite of how I look.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:It's a bit like the old "Get on the cycle-path" thing.
The first few times are merely annoying. After a while,
you start to retaliate...
Hadn't thought of it like that. I don't *think* I'm guilty
of that kind of comment, but can't be 100% sure ... anyway,
I'll be aware in future.
It's been food for thought for me, too. This is a good
thing. I like having preconceptions challenged.
I try and make a point of treating people as I find them.
But it's difficult to be sure, isn't it?
Quoted message said:[1] Inferior - literally "Lower". See what I mean - we have
prejudice built in to our language!
Indeed. And it's worse it you're a lefty, too. Oh, and FWIW,
my wife is 4'11".
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Matt K Dunedin, NZ