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catzz66
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Zoot Katz wrote:
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> The other thought is that while it is possible to keep Hustler,
> Bicycling and the Sears catalogue out of your home, it is impossible
> to keep the kids from seeing them.
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> It seems the way to resolve the situation is to give the kids a way
> to handle it when you're not there to censor what they see. Rather
> than freaking out and making it into an issue, treat sexual subjects
> honestly in a way they can understand.
There is nothing wrong with trying to build into your offspring things
that you consider to be worthwhile personal values. There's also
nothing wrong with having or stating an opinion about any of it. We all
have that right, though we come down on all sides of any particular issue.
Likewise, you offer some valuable advice. The issues are going to be
out there in society and the kids and grandkids are going to have to
deal with them, so a parent/grandparent is better off being up front
about these things instead of totally sheltering them from the issues
and having them being blindsided by them later on.
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>
> The other thought is that while it is possible to keep Hustler,
> Bicycling and the Sears catalogue out of your home, it is impossible
> to keep the kids from seeing them.
>
> It seems the way to resolve the situation is to give the kids a way
> to handle it when you're not there to censor what they see. Rather
> than freaking out and making it into an issue, treat sexual subjects
> honestly in a way they can understand.
There is nothing wrong with trying to build into your offspring things
that you consider to be worthwhile personal values. There's also
nothing wrong with having or stating an opinion about any of it. We all
have that right, though we come down on all sides of any particular issue.
Likewise, you offer some valuable advice. The issues are going to be
out there in society and the kids and grandkids are going to have to
deal with them, so a parent/grandparent is better off being up front
about these things instead of totally sheltering them from the issues
and having them being blindsided by them later on.