Ill try to make it short but after nearly 15 years "off" I'm getting back into street riding (currently 35). I have a Specialized Crossroads and started riding 5-10 miles trips. Last week, I acquired a beautiful 2009 Specialized Roubaix comp from my brother in law on loan. The bike is barely used, he bought it new but decided street riding wasn't for him. He's letting me ride it for the season to see if it is for me. At the end of the season I will either buy his or buy a new one. The frame is the correct size for me (56) and I've positioned the seat to what fits me (used to ride competitively, not new to riding). The seat is a specialized toupe gel. My problem is my "saddle soreness". Being 6 foot flat, this time last year I was 265 lbs, after diet and exercise I am now down to 180. In short, I have no rear end padding. I did buy a pair of riding shorts (pearl Izumi elite) but they don't seem to be helping much. After a 12 mile ride last Sunday and 16 today I'm so sore it hurts to sit. My issue is that it is not the "meat" that's sore, it's my bones. For lack of better terms, it's where my thigh bones join my hips. The area under my butt cheeks in the meat of my crotch. It's darn near unbearable when riding and completely pulled the rug out from under me today. My legs and body would be good for 40+ miles but simply put, my butt can't take it. I went through the standard and predictable saddle sore stage when I started riding my comfort bike and that went away rather quickly...this however feels entirely different...like I've bruised my bones. Having raced BMX in the 80's and mountain in the 90's this is first real time doing endurance road biking. My question is, is this normal? Do I need another seat? Will this go away with time? I've never expirenced this kind of pain riding and it's becoming discouraging. Any help/advice would be outstanding.