So
This is a long one but i need advice
I am rubbish at saving, rash, impulsive, schizophrenic, autistic 1,
I am in danger of putting my car on the market with no one's approval - even my husband who sort of wants me to sell my car (so he can keep his) I know an £8000 present from my mum is not to be sold.
I would like a carbon road bike for 1250 - 1700 £
I really don't have the money
I am spending £50 on Therapy every week and my husband and mum are buying the food or clothes etc i would normally buy for that money
I'm on disability, mum is retired and Husband has a clerical career and we're pretty normal income etc except i'm on Disabilithy
I usually save for a month or a week and get bored of saving and buy a perfume or nice top or jeans
I really want to do this i am afraid my family will think i am not normal especially if i sell my car for wanting an expensive bike
I'd like to ride everywhere i am not constrained by anything except occasionally very bad weather and i've seen people manage it
I know that the logical answer is to stop therapy when i'm ready, stop buying expensive clothes and just be open about the whole thing
That's about all i can do
I want to ditch the car and buy a good road bike
I have no idea if i can do this, my family really don't trust me with money
I think i just have to manage to earn the bike by putting money aside and using my big old bike (charity shop - full suspension)
FOR everything
and then just be happy when i have saved money for a carbon women's bike and maybe even tell my family why i want it
I can't think of good reasons except a carbon bike would move faster
Can carbon bikes be used on gravel, lumpy concrete, muddy stoney paths? can keep my old bike still
This is a long one but i need advice
I am rubbish at saving, rash, impulsive, schizophrenic, autistic 1,
I am in danger of putting my car on the market with no one's approval - even my husband who sort of wants me to sell my car (so he can keep his) I know an £8000 present from my mum is not to be sold.
I would like a carbon road bike for 1250 - 1700 £
I really don't have the money
I am spending £50 on Therapy every week and my husband and mum are buying the food or clothes etc i would normally buy for that money
I'm on disability, mum is retired and Husband has a clerical career and we're pretty normal income etc except i'm on Disabilithy
I usually save for a month or a week and get bored of saving and buy a perfume or nice top or jeans
I really want to do this i am afraid my family will think i am not normal especially if i sell my car for wanting an expensive bike
I'd like to ride everywhere i am not constrained by anything except occasionally very bad weather and i've seen people manage it
I know that the logical answer is to stop therapy when i'm ready, stop buying expensive clothes and just be open about the whole thing
That's about all i can do
I want to ditch the car and buy a good road bike
I have no idea if i can do this, my family really don't trust me with money
I think i just have to manage to earn the bike by putting money aside and using my big old bike (charity shop - full suspension)
FOR everything
and then just be happy when i have saved money for a carbon women's bike and maybe even tell my family why i want it
I can't think of good reasons except a carbon bike would move faster
Can carbon bikes be used on gravel, lumpy concrete, muddy stoney paths? can keep my old bike still