1. Get my diabetes back under control, losing weight as a side benefit, which also helps with the diabetes. 1.a. Exercise! 2. Stop talking like a trucker. 3. Don't become confrontational and ugly when someone posts something I strongly disagree with or find offensive. Wait until I'm calmer to respond in a kind, rational way. The other option is to simply ignore someone else's bad behavior. I'm better at the latter than the former. 4. Get my housework under control, then keep it that way. (A very difficult one for me) 5. Read more. Anyone else?