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jtaylor
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"Sorni" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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> Sometimes an outburst (like "kiss my ass") is more /polite/ (in that it's
> honest and direct) than arrogantly calling people stupid, saying they
can't
> read or think critically, that their teachers didn't do a good job with
> them, that it's all over their head, etc. etc. etc.
>
> The latter are more hurtful and mean-spirited, IMO, than short expressions
> of anger.
>
The problem is, that commets of the type...
"pompous gasbag"
"asshole"
"jackass"
and things like starting a thread accusing another poster of deviant sexual
practices...
are ad hominem attacks. They have no place in a reasonable debate, because
they have nothing to do with the topic or the posters approach to presenting
his or her view.
Things like saying someone cannot read or think properly, is innumerate,
etcetera, are descriptions of actions (or the lack of them) which can be
(and have been, in the instant case) descriptions of the actions of posters
as they put their points of view; and as such, are completely within the
scope of the discussion.
Especially if they are true - like someone who cannot or will not do the
maths that show that helmets cost more than they benefit, or that walking is
as or more dangerous than cycling, or that rotational injuries are more
likely than injuries that have no rotational component, and so on.
Now, you've _already_ admitted that your calling people "asshole",
"jackass', "gasbag" and the starting of the deviant sexual practice thread
ARE abusive. Why are you still defending your actions of this nature?
news:[email protected]...
> Sometimes an outburst (like "kiss my ass") is more /polite/ (in that it's
> honest and direct) than arrogantly calling people stupid, saying they
can't
> read or think critically, that their teachers didn't do a good job with
> them, that it's all over their head, etc. etc. etc.
>
> The latter are more hurtful and mean-spirited, IMO, than short expressions
> of anger.
>
The problem is, that commets of the type...
"pompous gasbag"
"asshole"
"jackass"
and things like starting a thread accusing another poster of deviant sexual
practices...
are ad hominem attacks. They have no place in a reasonable debate, because
they have nothing to do with the topic or the posters approach to presenting
his or her view.
Things like saying someone cannot read or think properly, is innumerate,
etcetera, are descriptions of actions (or the lack of them) which can be
(and have been, in the instant case) descriptions of the actions of posters
as they put their points of view; and as such, are completely within the
scope of the discussion.
Especially if they are true - like someone who cannot or will not do the
maths that show that helmets cost more than they benefit, or that walking is
as or more dangerous than cycling, or that rotational injuries are more
likely than injuries that have no rotational component, and so on.
Now, you've _already_ admitted that your calling people "asshole",
"jackass', "gasbag" and the starting of the deviant sexual practice thread
ARE abusive. Why are you still defending your actions of this nature?