Donovan, I am not aware of your personal situation, but I am curious, let's say you want to spend a whole day away from home. Would you ask your *boyfriend* and make sure that he agrees with your plans? Would you like your bf to inform you if he wants to spend a whole day elsewhere, and ensure that you did not have any alternate plans?
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To me, personally, being married implies a certain level of being considerate to one's spouse.