Jim Harvest said:
I suspect, but you will know better given your profession, that there is
an element of selfishness in parents not allowing their children to take
part in activities incurring minor risks, because they do not want the
feeling of stress from worrying about them whilst they are participating
in the activity.
Do you think that is true?
I am a parent and I do allow my kids to take risks some people would
witter at me about, such as nag riding, cycling on roads, using public
transport, playing out, walking out of my sight, communicating with
people I've never heard of (ie friends), by email or other electronic media.
Partly I allow this because I'm to idle to sit and watch them all the
time, but also because their not daft and have to grow up sometime.
On a very selfish level there always the feeling that if something
happened to them while doing any of the above, people would blame me. If
on the other hand stuck to I keeping them indoors and in properly
supervised leisure activities so that got fat lazy and repulsive that
would be society's fault.
Last Wednesday I was cycling with my daughter to her school, when she
got forced off the road by a BMW driver in an overtake, "bugger theirs
something coming", pull in, "what's that noise" then look, sort of
manoeuvre.
After my initials reactions of check daughter was OK, reassure her it
was not her fault and then drag driver out of car and ask her what the
f*** she was doing, my main anxiety was that everyone would berate me
for putting her at risk in such a reckless way.
No one did, everyone was really nice, other parents, the school, the
police (yes I reported it), my better half (who doesn't cycle), but I
had a big "waiting for the grown ups to find out" feeling.
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Andy Morris
AndyAtjinkasDotfreeserve.co.uk
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