Is the frame steel or aluminum?
Without seeing your frame, I am going to presume that you meant that your boyfriend bent the rear derailleur hanger ...
If it is steel, then it can be readily fixed/repaired ...
If it is aluminum, then you may need to consider a new boyfriend ... kidding!
MOST, but not all, aluminum frames have replaceable rear derailleur hangers.
A good shop can re-align a STEEL rear derailleur hanger for between $10-to-$20 ... ask them how many times they have done the procedure ... you don't want YOUR frame to the be their first!
YOU could theoretically DIY if you are moderately handy ...
I always say that if you can replace a light bulb, you can work on your bike ...
However, I'm going to guess that YOUR boyfriend is probably NOT handy enough to do the work no matter how wonderful you may-or-may-not think he is in other areas of your relationship.
Steel is actually softer than most people think (simply consider how easily bent a wire coat hanger is) ...
You simply (?) need EITHER a medium sized adjustable crescent wrench (i.e., 10" or longer handle) OR a medium size pipe wrench PLUS a couple of small pieces of scrap plywood to sandwich the derailleur hanger with ...
REMOVE the rear derailleur ...
Grasp as much of the FLAT portion of the rear derailleur hanger's tab as you can NEAR-the-bend with the wrench you have chosen to use ...
AND THEN, apply whatever YOU think is about only 5 lbs. of pressure ...
ASSESS ...
REPEAT as necessary ...
DON'T be in a hurry ... applying LESS pressure MANY TIMES is better than more pressure only a couple of times ...
IF you happen to go past the vertical (you can probably use the frame's seat tube as a visual guide), you can tweak it back, accordingly ...
IMO, a pipe wrench is theoretically (?) easier to use due to the angle of the handle relative to the hanger, but it does require the pieces of scrap wood to prevent marring the SOFT steel of the rear derailleur hanger.
The cost of a replaceable rear derailleur hanger seems to vary widely ... again, allow $10-to-$20.
If the frame is aluminum AND it does not have a replaceable rear derailleur hanger, then you (or, your bike shop) will need to consider how to bolt a not-designed-for-the-specific-frame derailleur hanger onto your current frame ... IT CAN BE DONE.
BTW. Of course, you will need either a 5mm Allen Wrench to remove-and-reinstall the rear derailleur from the frame OR (possibly) an adjustable wrench if your bike has a lower-end rear derailleur ...
You can buy a cheap set of METRIC Allen Wrenches for only $2 from many "dollar" stores, Harbor Freight, etc.