My spouse is very uncomfortable with me having a massage while nude and in the presence of a female therapist. I have explained and shown her on the internet where being undressed is the norm. but that it is up to the client. She also understands that we are fully drapped during the massage. I prefer to be nude while being massage...I just enjoy it more and feel more relaxed. I would not feel comfortable with a male therapist. She refuses to try a massage so therefore, has no understanding why I enjoy Does anyone have any suggestions how or what to say to relieve my wifes feelings short of never going again? Are their any good reasons to be undressed? What precentages of men vs. woman would you say go nude under the draping? I have tried to explain that a massage therapist is on-par with my doctor and anything they see is no big deal for them...it's their profession. Has anyone dealt with this personnaly or have clients that have? She is not demanding that I never go, but I know it will hurt her feelings everytime I do! We have been married for 23 years with no infedelity on either part. Even think she feels I am cheating on her which I am not. Thanks! --perplexed!