Originally posted by booyah
This is probably the best comment I've read in this whole thread.
I'm trying to get rid of a bit of weight these days. I'd put on to about 240 over the last four years. Healthy weight for me when I'm fit is around 195-200. I went to Weight Watchers with my wife for a while, and it made me realize I wanted something more than just losing weight. Losing weight wasn't my main goal - getting fit and feeling good was! Weight Watchers is a great system to get a kick-start with, and focuses your mind and body on what is good/bad to eat. Trouble was, they want me to be 185 (ain't gonna happen in this lifetime with my build), and don't take fitness and muscle mass into account too well.
Removing weight targets from my 'lifestyle change' has been the best thing I've ever done. >>>>
Way to GO!
THAT is the true secret to lasting weight loss--not making it a goal.
As the Zen saying goes, The more you seek something, the harder it will be to find it.
When you focus on weight loss, you subconsciously feel deprived, punished, being denied food for being "bad" in terms of weight gain.
When you focus on being healthy and energetic, you don't feel like you are being punished...because you are not doing anything different than what many thin people do. I am very proud of the fact that not once have I ever gone on any weight loss diet...not Weight Watchers, Atkins, none of them. To me that is a sign of willpower...because I tend to see weight loss dieters as weakminded people (a lot of that has to do with my childhood growing up with a mother who was really emotionally torn apart by the guilt WW used to pile on their members.) The diet industry is a SHAM and a moneymaking racket. HEALTHY eating and exercise is the only thing that works because it is a lifestyle change. And its FREE!