"Mike" <
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> "For the record:
> While I am no longer a fan of Lance Armstrong due to his treatment of
> his wife, Kristin, I must set the record straight (Letters, March 8).
> According to his book "It's Not about the Bike: My Journey Back to
> Life", Armstrong met Kristin after his diagnosis and after treatment
> of cancer. She did not 'suffer with Lance for years as he confronted
> csncer' as Bill Everhart claims in his letter to SI.
> Stacy Sloan, Washington State"
> Sports Illustrated, p.15, March 29, 2004, vol.100, n.13.
What are you talking about? She met him within months of his discovery of
the illness. So what is your point? That he did not suffer for years? The
diagnosis and treatment happens fast and is only the start of the suffering.
Maybe you should educate yourself a bit *before* you make declarations based
on your analysis.
And regarding the specific timing, I might be wrong but I thought she was on
the scene before his first Chemo treatment although going purely by memory,
I think he has the surgery first. That would be typical I think. Anyway,
even if she met him after a year, she certainly met him long before he got
his proverbial **** together and much of his book discusses how unfocused he
was. He may not emphasize it very well, but anyone that has been married
especially during a crisis (like one partner discovering cancer) knows how
much difference a spouse can make for the better or for the worse. Some
women would have been more mentally trashed that he was and she certainly
demonstrated a lot of patience and love that in my opinion made a huge
difference in getting his ass back on the way to doing something with his
life while letting him decide what that something was. I believe she met him
while working for a cancer fund raising organization and became close
friends immediately. Go read the book again, it is all there I think. The
bottom line is the suffering starts with the diagnosis and can continue for
years. The treatment can last for months and the fallout (from not knowing
whether you are going to need even more torturous therapy or perhaps even
lose your life) lasts for years. She did meet him and join him in a marriage
during the very lowest point of his life with no guarantees that it would
get any better. That deserves a hell of a lot more credit than you or Lance
or any of his other legions of disciples seem to care about.