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Wayne Boatwright <
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> You're brutal! (I need to develop that attitude. It would save me the
> trouble of often making separate meals.)
I have to tell you, Wayne, don't make separate meals. If there is
something someone is allergic to, leave it out, but if you're the cook,
cook the food. Try to make it something everyone will tolerate, but
don't become a short order chef.
We have tried not to pass on our food prejudices to the kids, and we
have committed to never saying anything bad about any kind of food in
front of them. Even if we hate it. They aren't as big fans of
mushrooms or bleu cheese as they could be because I don't like them, and
therefore don't buy them or cook with them, but Rich eats them and when
we eat out the kids get to have those kinds of things.
Since part of my job is nourishing the family, along with keeping in
the budget, we don't really have the luxury of different meals anyway,
but the kids learn from us that they need to eat the good food that is
offered to them.
Now, of course, I don't load a meal with things that I know everyone
dislikes, but if something that is part of the meal isn't a favorite of
someone, they still have to eat a little bit anyway. If the kids
complain, Rich explains that Mama made this for them to nourish them and
out of love and how would they like it if they made a picture for me and
I said that I didn't want it or that it was yucky. That usually makes
the point.
Regards,
Ranee
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