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I've finally convinced my husband to see a doctor for a wellness
check-up. He's turning 50 and hasn't been near a doctor in years. I'm
concerned about his perpetually high cholesterol and LDL and I suspect
his testosterone levels are significantly low.
He just asked me what blood tests he should ask his doctor to order
before he sees her. The doctor knows me and will order tests in advance
if I ask for them so she can gauge what's going on better when she
actually meets him in person.
What tests would you order? I figure a basic lipid panel, PSA test and
check T levels but I don't know what the best tests are for PSA and T so
I don't know how to ask for them appropriately. I've also had him on
no-flush niacin for a year now so I figure we need to check the liver,
but again I don't know the right language.
Last time he made an appointment (a year ago) she had to cancel and he
waited a year to reschedule (and it took him some years to make that
first appointment.) I really don't know how often I can get a well-man
to visit a doctor, but I'd really like to move him forward on getting
some statins into him (heart disease runs in his family and diet and
exercise have bairly touched his LDL).
The problem, if you can call it that, is that nothing is really
obviously wrong with him that you don't just say is due to aging. But
I'm worried about muscle wasting, tiredness, irritability, stuff like
that... he's kind of been acting too old-mannish sometimes and I'm not
sure why. I just can't make 50 be old... but maybe that's because *I'm*
old and I hang out with athletes for whom 50 isn't particularly old.
One more piece that might explain his tiredness: having married a trophy
wife (that's me) he ended up with a high-energy kindergartner as he's
turning 50. Also a high-needs teen-aged daughter. Not to mention a
high-needs wife. Throw into that a demanding job, a joyful active 12
year old son and a Labrador Retriever. (I suppose the bloodwork might
not contain the clues to his tiredness afterall.)
But what do you guys think: am I missing any tests I should request for
a well man? FWIW, he's of normal weight - not lean, not fat - and
exercises three or four times a week intensely in team sports and eats
the same "clean" diet that helped me lose 80 pounds, i.e., an
MFW-approved diet.
Delenn