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  1. [I posted this prior but it seems appropriate with the topic being
    discussed again. -- TR]

    Being conservative, I'm often shocked at what people will do to their
    bodies in order to show how anti-establishment they are. Case in point:
    Once upon a time, a young lady in front of me ordered a hot soy milk
    drink. (YUCK!)

    At some point, she was quite pretty -- I'm sure -- but with all that's
    been pinned, painted, and pulled that's now a moot. I'm not sure if
    "Goth" is in anymore but the dress was very similar -- black (spandex,
    leather, cotton). She'd pinned herself in some very visible and some not
    so visible places (but it was cold outside). A triad of steel pins
    protruded from the lower lip to just above the chin. Two diamonds were
    pinned through the right nostril. A steel horseshoe was run through the
    nose ridge between her eyes. Two diamond studs replaced her eyebrows.
    Her ears had also been pieced multiple times. There were, uh, two other
    noticeable rings, too (reader's imagination required). [All I can say to
    this is "OUCH!!" There isn't enough single malt whiskey to give me the
    courage to pin myself this often.] She was painted: wrist and ankle
    carried Celtic designs, the back of her neck (sun god/goddess), and
    cheek carried some tear drops. Her hair was chopped short, dyed deep
    blue-black, and spiked.

    All I could think of at the time: Why? Doesn't she realize what she'll
    look like in 20 years? Pinholes /might/ close, hair can grow back, but
    those tattoos are there for life (even if lasers are used to remove
    them...)

    Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.

    The Ranger
    --
    It's no longer fashion when an obsessive-compulsive disorder takes hold;
    it's a mental health issue.

  2. The Ranger said:

    [I posted this prior but it seems appropriate with the topic being
    discussed again. -- TR]

    Being conservative, I'm often shocked at what people will do to their
    bodies in order to show how anti-establishment they are. Case in point:
    Once upon a time, a young lady in front of me ordered a hot soy milk
    drink. (YUCK!)

    At some point, she was quite pretty -- I'm sure -- but with all that's
    been pinned, painted, and pulled that's now a moot. I'm not sure if
    "Goth" is in anymore but the dress was very similar -- black (spandex,
    leather, cotton). She'd pinned herself in some very visible and some not
    so visible places (but it was cold outside). A triad of steel pins
    protruded from the lower lip to just above the chin. Two diamonds were
    pinned through the right nostril. A steel horseshoe was run through the
    nose ridge between her eyes. Two diamond studs replaced her eyebrows.
    Her ears had also been pieced multiple times. There were, uh, two other
    noticeable rings, too (reader's imagination required). [All I can say to
    this is "OUCH!!" There isn't enough single malt whiskey to give me the
    courage to pin myself this often.] She was painted: wrist and ankle
    carried Celtic designs, the back of her neck (sun god/goddess), and
    cheek carried some tear drops. Her hair was chopped short, dyed deep
    blue-black, and spiked.

    All I could think of at the time: Why? Doesn't she realize what she'll
    look like in 20 years? Pinholes /might/ close, hair can grow back, but
    those tattoos are there for life (even if lasers are used to remove
    them...)

    Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.

    The Ranger

    We used to gaze at the pages of National Geographic and think, "Look
    at those poor savages." Now our current generation seems to be doing
    everything to look like them.

    Rusty

  3. Rusty reuben_barton@no_spam_y_a_h_o_o_.com said:

    We used to gaze at the pages of National Geographic and think, "Look
    at those poor savages." Now our current generation seems to be doing
    everything to look like them.

    There's a guy who works at one of the stores we patronize. He's very, very
    black. And he has orderly rows of raised bumps on his forehead. It looks
    really sharp! I keep planning on asking him where he's from, but I always
    chicken out. I *will* find out what those cool rows are all about, though.

    Carol

    --
    Coming at you live, from beautiful Lake Woebegon

  4. "Damsel" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Rusty reuben_barton@no_spam_y_a_h_o_o_.com said:

    We used to gaze at the pages of National Geographic and think, "Look
    at those poor savages." Now our current generation seems to be doing
    everything to look like them.

    There's a guy who works at one of the stores we patronize. He's very,
    very
    black. And he has orderly rows of raised bumps on his forehead. It looks
    really sharp! I keep planning on asking him where he's from, but I always
    chicken out. I *will* find out what those cool rows are all about,
    though.

    Carol

    --
    Coming at you live, from beautiful Lake Woebegon

    I don't know whether this applies to the fellow you are talking about, but I
    read a few months ago that a few "stars" are starting to put 'bumps' under
    their skin; small to large. No, not botox bumps, or high cheek-bone
    bumps, as far as I understood the article.
    Yikes!
    Dee

  5. Damsel <[email hidden]> wrote in
    news:[email hidden]:

    Quoted message said:
    Rusty reuben_barton@no_spam_y_a_h_o_o_.com said:

    We used to gaze at the pages of National Geographic and think,
    "Look at those poor savages." Now our current generation seems to
    be doing everything to look like them.

    There's a guy who works at one of the stores we patronize. He's
    very, very black. And he has orderly rows of raised bumps on his
    forehead. It looks really sharp! I keep planning on asking him
    where he's from, but I always chicken out. I *will* find out what
    those cool rows are all about, though.

    I can tell you right now. They're ritual scarring.

    http://www.randafricanart.com/Luba_bowstand.html

    --

    "Compassion is the chief law of human existence."

    Dostoevski, The Idiot

  6. Damsel said:
    Rusty reuben_barton@no_spam_y_a_h_o_o_.com said:

    We used to gaze at the pages of National Geographic and think, "Look
    at those poor savages." Now our current generation seems to be doing
    everything to look like them.

    There's a guy who works at one of the stores we patronize. He's very, very
    black. And he has orderly rows of raised bumps on his forehead. It looks
    really sharp! I keep planning on asking him where he's from, but I always
    chicken out. I *will* find out what those cool rows are all about, though.

    They're indickative of the bumps on his schlong, really... they imbed
    little stones under the skin as a rite of passage, like a bar mitzvah
    but those thirteen year olds get stoned peepees instead of stoned on
    Manischewitz.

    Maybe you'll get lucky... report back. 😉

    Sheldon

  7. Sheldon said:
    Damsel said:


    There's a guy who works at one of the stores we patronize. He's very, very
    black. And he has orderly rows of raised bumps on his forehead. It looks
    really sharp! I keep planning on asking him where he's from, but I always
    chicken out. I *will* find out what those cool rows are all about, though.

    They're indickative of the bumps on his schlong, really... they imbed
    little stones under the skin as a rite of passage, like a bar mitzvah
    but those thirteen year olds get stoned peepees instead of stoned on
    Manischewitz.

    Maybe you'll get lucky... report back. 😉

    "Stoned for her pleasure"

    Carol

    --
    Coming at you live, from beautiful Lake Woebegon

  8. Dee Randall said:

    "Damsel" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:


    There's a guy who works at one of the stores we patronize. He's very,
    very black. And he has orderly rows of raised bumps on his forehead.
    It looks really sharp! I keep planning on asking him where he's from, but
    I always chicken out. I *will* find out what those cool rows are all about,
    though.

    I don't know whether this applies to the fellow you are talking about, but I
    read a few months ago that a few "stars" are starting to put 'bumps' under
    their skin; small to large. No, not botox bumps, or high cheek-bone
    bumps, as far as I understood the article.
    Yikes!

    Found it! It's called scarification.
    http://my-body-art.com/scarification.htm

    The description of the forehead markings sounds a lot like the Store Guy's
    markings. This may make him from the Sudan or Ethiopia:
    http://www.absoluteastronomy.com/encyclopedia/N/Nu/Nuer.htm

    This is similar to the SG's:
    http://tinyurl.com/dm5ue
    OR
    http://www.panos.co.uk/bin/panos.dll/go?a=disp&pt=1&t=us\sr-loadersearch.html&si=&tc=&usp=0&_spb=0&_spe=0&_spw=0&mw=2&se=&_filtercolor=&_filterori=&_filteraut=&_filteryear=&searchtext=00024134

    Carol

    --
    Coming at you live, from beautiful Lake Woebegon

  9. Michel Boucher said:

    Some young people resent who you are and what you represent and so they
    do everything they can to shock you. The punk movement is an overt
    rebellion against the established order.

    I'm fond of saying that every kid rebels, no matter what length s/he
    has to go to in order to do it. In my case, my 25-year old was
    blessed/cursed with me, the weird, out-there mommy, so she rebelled
    the only way she could. She became a yuppie. (Seriously...bought her
    first house with her own money at 19, is on the fast track in retail
    management, married a computer/IT geek at 20 (evidently NOBODY gets
    married at 20 unless they're pregnant...it still shocks her cow-orkers
    that she didn't HAVE to get married) and her stocks and bonds are
    doing well - she started buying them her first week in the job
    market...at 15)

    Jeanne

  10. "The Ranger" <[email hidden]> wrote in
    news:[email hidden]:

    Quoted message said:

    All I could think of at the time: Why? Doesn't she realize what
    she'll look like in 20 years? Pinholes /might/ close, hair can
    grow back, but those tattoos are there for life (even if lasers
    are used to remove them...)

    Some young people resent who you are and what you represent and so they
    do everything they can to shock you. The punk movement is an overt
    rebellion against the established order.

    Quoted message said:

    Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.

    And if it was, would you love her any less?

    --

    "Compassion is the chief law of human existence."

    Dostoevski, The Idiot

  11. "The Ranger" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    [I posted this prior but it seems appropriate with the topic being
    discussed again. -- TR]

    Being conservative, I'm often shocked at what people will do to their
    bodies in order to show how anti-establishment they are. Case in point:
    Once upon a time, a young lady in front of me ordered a hot soy milk
    drink. (YUCK!)

    At some point, she was quite pretty -- I'm sure -- but with all that's
    been pinned, painted, and pulled that's now a moot. I'm not sure if
    "Goth" is in anymore but the dress was very similar -- black (spandex,
    leather, cotton). She'd pinned herself in some very visible and some not
    so visible places (but it was cold outside). A triad of steel pins
    protruded from the lower lip to just above the chin. Two diamonds were
    pinned through the right nostril. A steel horseshoe was run through the
    nose ridge between her eyes. Two diamond studs replaced her eyebrows.
    Her ears had also been pieced multiple times. There were, uh, two other
    noticeable rings, too (reader's imagination required). [All I can say to
    this is "OUCH!!" There isn't enough single malt whiskey to give me the
    courage to pin myself this often.] She was painted: wrist and ankle
    carried Celtic designs, the back of her neck (sun god/goddess), and
    cheek carried some tear drops. Her hair was chopped short, dyed deep
    blue-black, and spiked.

    All I could think of at the time: Why? Doesn't she realize what she'll
    look like in 20 years? Pinholes /might/ close, hair can grow back, but
    those tattoos are there for life (even if lasers are used to remove
    them...)

    Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.

    The Ranger

    Oh me oh my oh DEAR! The things some people will do to their mental make-up,
    their emotional make-up, the closing off of whole parts of themselves, the
    damage they do to themselves in the name of what they unequivocally *know*
    is right and wrong - the inner scars - those are the ones that show the
    most, and have the most profound negative effects on lives, and not just
    their own lives, either ',;~P'''

    Shaun aRe - No tattoos (yet?), just 2 piercings, one each earlobe, one 5mm
    diameter and soon to be 8mm, the other one 8mm already. Gosh I'm a rebel.

  12. Shaun aRe <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    [snip]

    Quoted message said:

    Oh me oh my oh DEAR! [snip]

    Prosac. You might like to order a round before you become anymore
    unhinged.

    Quoted message said:

    Shaun aRe - No tattoos (yet?), just 2 piercings,

    Go back and match the young girl's number and then brag. Till then...
    You are borg.

    The Ranger
    ---
    Never give the good stuff to the neighbors who wandered over, but always
    have something to give them!
    -- M. L.'s personal, Code of the West

  13. Michel Boucher <[email hidden]> asked in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    [snip]

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.

    Quoted message said:

    And if it was, would you love her any less?

    It won't happen (with any of them) so it's moot.

    The Ranger
    ---
    Better to be called an [censored] for being passionately opinionated than
    to just be called an [censored] because you *are* just an [censored].
    Josie's dad, am, 9/29/01

  14. Rusty <reuben_barton@no_spam_y_a_h_o_o_.com> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    [snip]

    Quoted message said:

    We used to gaze at the pages of National Geographic and
    think, "Look at those poor savages." Now our current
    generation seems to be doing everything to look like them.

    Ain't it the TRVTH.

    The Ranger
    ---
    "You know, I used to think it was awful that life was so unfair. Then I
    thought, wouldn't it be much worse if life were fair, and all the
    terrible things that happen to us come because we actually deserve them?
    So, now I take great comfort in the general hostility and unfairness of
    the universe."
    -+-+-+ Marcus, 'A Late Delivery From Avalon', Babylon 5

  15. On Mon, 20 Jun 2005 14:40:54 +0100, "Shaun aRe"
    <[email hidden]> connected the dots and wrote:

    ~
    ~"The Ranger" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    ~news:[email hidden]...
    ~> [I posted this prior but it seems appropriate with the topic being
    ~> discussed again. -- TR]
    ~>
    ~> Being conservative, I'm often shocked at what people will do to
    their
    ~> bodies in order to show how anti-establishment they are. Case in
    point:
    ~> Once upon a time, a young lady in front of me ordered a hot soy
    milk
    ~> drink. (YUCK!)
    ~>
    ~> At some point, she was quite pretty -- I'm sure -- but with all
    that's
    ~> been pinned, painted, and pulled that's now a moot. I'm not sure if
    ~> "Goth" is in anymore but the dress was very similar -- black
    (spandex,
    ~> leather, cotton). She'd pinned herself in some very visible and
    some not
    ~> so visible places (but it was cold outside). A triad of steel pins
    ~> protruded from the lower lip to just above the chin. Two diamonds
    were
    ~> pinned through the right nostril. A steel horseshoe was run through
    the
    ~> nose ridge between her eyes. Two diamond studs replaced her
    eyebrows.
    ~> Her ears had also been pieced multiple times. There were, uh, two
    other
    ~> noticeable rings, too (reader's imagination required). [All I can
    say to
    ~> this is "OUCH!!" There isn't enough single malt whiskey to give me
    the
    ~> courage to pin myself this often.] She was painted: wrist and ankle
    ~> carried Celtic designs, the back of her neck (sun god/goddess), and
    ~> cheek carried some tear drops. Her hair was chopped short, dyed
    deep
    ~> blue-black, and spiked.
    ~>
    ~> All I could think of at the time: Why? Doesn't she realize what
    she'll
    ~> look like in 20 years? Pinholes /might/ close, hair can grow back,
    but
    ~> those tattoos are there for life (even if lasers are used to remove
    ~> them...)
    ~>
    ~> Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.
    ~>
    ~> The Ranger
    ~
    ~Oh me oh my oh DEAR! The things some people will do to their mental
    make-up,
    ~their emotional make-up, the closing off of whole parts of
    themselves, the
    ~damage they do to themselves in the name of what they unequivocally
    *know*
    ~is right and wrong - the inner scars - those are the ones that show
    the
    ~most, and have the most profound negative effects on lives, and not
    just
    ~their own lives, either ',;~P'''
    ~
    ~
    ~
    ~Shaun aRe - No tattoos (yet?), just 2 piercings, one each earlobe,
    one 5mm
    ~diameter and soon to be 8mm, the other one 8mm already. Gosh I'm a
    rebel.
    ~

    My daughter was 7 and we had just moved to a new neighborhood and it
    was Girl Scout Cookie time. We went door to door to meet our
    neighbors, and she was stunned by the house of the "piercing people" a
    couple of 20-somethings with multiple piercings. I prodded her
    through her spiel, they excitedly bought a number of boxes, and we
    thanked them and left.

    When we returned in March to deliver the goodies, an older woman
    answered the door, cute as a button, and obviously related to the two
    kids. She is their mom, who along with her son, works with
    differently abled children at the local school. The daughter is a
    sous chef at a local restaurant.

    Nice neighbors. They have a dog and several cats.

    And daughter has no interest in tats, nor piercings beyond her ears,
    which closed up after the first time she plugged them.

    maxine in ri

  16. Jeanne Burton <[email hidden]> wrote in
    news:[email hidden]:

    Quoted message said:
    Michel Boucher said:

    Some young people resent who you are and what you represent and so
    they do everything they can to shock you. The punk movement is an
    overt rebellion against the established order.

    I'm fond of saying that every kid rebels, no matter what length
    s/he has to go to in order to do it. In my case, my 25-year old
    was blessed/cursed with me, the weird, out-there mommy, so she
    rebelled the only way she could. She became a yuppie.
    (Seriously...bought her first house with her own money at 19, is
    on the fast track in retail management, married a computer/IT geek
    at 20 (evidently NOBODY gets married at 20 unless they're
    pregnant...it still shocks her cow-orkers that she didn't HAVE to
    get married) and her stocks and bonds are doing well - she started
    buying them her first week in the job market...at 15)

    My my...you have some serious karma to deal with seeing as you
    twisted that child beyond all human comprehension :-) And to think
    that would be some right-winger's pride and joy. But you're the one
    she rebels against. The problem is that we don't plan what our
    children will rebel against. For example, my daughter's rebellion is
    to NOT go to university. She has set her sights on acting instead
    and moved across the continent to do it.

    But it makes my point. Rebellion is rejection of values. Your
    daughter rejected yours. She is doing what society has programmed
    her to do which is part of the process of renewal. I suspect
    Ranger's daughters rebelled too, only he doesn't know about it :-)

    --

    "Compassion is the chief law of human existence."

    Dostoevski, The Idiot

  17. "The Ranger" <[email hidden]> wrote in
    news:[email hidden]:

    Quoted message said:

    Michel Boucher <[email hidden]> asked in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    [snip]

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.

    Quoted message said:

    And if it was, would you love her any less?

    It won't happen (with any of them) so it's moot.

    But that's not my question.

    --

    "Compassion is the chief law of human existence."

    Dostoevski, The Idiot

  18. Michel Boucher <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    "The Ranger" <[email hidden]> wrote in


    news:[email hidden]:

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Michel Boucher <[email hidden]> asked in message


    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    [snip]

    Quoted message said:

    > Oh well... Not my daughter-unit, not my worry.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    And if it was, would you love her any less?

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    It won't happen (with any of them) so it's moot.

    Quoted message said:

    But that's not my question.

    That's the answer, though; like it or not. "It's moot."

    ObFood: Pesto Chicken Pizza from Via Mia (shameless plug) on Saratoga
    Avenue in San Jose, CA. Delicious and filling all while affordable.

    The Ranger
    ---
    I can't wait 'til I'm a teenager! Then you won't be able to order me
    around!"
    Alpha Ranger, 1234:55, 11/30/02

  19. On June 20, 2005, The Ranger wrote:

    <snip>

    Quoted message said:

    ObFood: Pesto Chicken Pizza from Via Mia (shameless plug) on Saratoga
    Avenue in San Jose, CA. Delicious and filling all while affordable.

    Quoted message said:

    The Ranger

    Thanks for the tip. I'll try it this week.

  20. kevin <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    ObFood: Pesto Chicken Pizza from Via Mia (shameless
    plug) on Saratoga Avenue in San Jose, CA. Delicious
    and filling all while affordable.

    Quoted message said:

    Thanks for the tip. I'll try it this week.

    Be sure to check out the coupon combos on their website. Pick-up is also
    WAY better than delivery.

    The Ranger

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