in message <[email hidden]>, Pete Biggs
(') said:Simon Brooke said:That's the thing about dying suddenly - you don't know about it, so
you don't know it's going to happen, and you don't know it has
happened. I'd be happy for that to happen any time. OK, it would be
sad for the people left behind, but less sad than watching me decline
into senility or suffer pain.
"Suddenly" is often not actually instantaneous, though. There may be a
couple of minutes or just a few seconds while conscious to realise
there is a real chance of dying any moment.
Been there, done that, the time I broke my back. Of course, I got lucky
that time - luckier than it's reasonable to expect to be, given that I
wasn't just not killed, I was also not paralysed..
Quoted message said:I had an experience which left me unable to breathe for a couple of
minutes (except I didn't know I would be all right again in a couple of
minutes!). I was desperately wishing for time to get my thoughts in
order, say goodbye to people and to enjoy a calm slow peaceful death
instead of an extremely quick one full of the ultimate panic. I wasn't
ready!!! I don't know, maybe in a way this is as bad for the victim as
a slow painful death.
I learned when my father died that there is merit on being on good terms
with the world, because you sometimes don't get the opportunity to bury
old and no longer useful hatchets. I don't do grudges any more.
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