Quoted message said:On 22 May 2006 19:35:38 -0700, "Ozark Bicycle"
<[email hidden]> wrote:
>
>[email hidden] wrote:
>> On 22 May 2006 16:26:59 -0700, [email hidden] wrote:
>>
>> >
>> >Ozark Bicycle wrote:
>> >> Dear Carl,
>> >>
>> >> It is apparent from reading RBT today that you have breached certain
>> >> confidences contained in my private reply to your sole private email to
>> >> me.
>> >>
>> >> So, here's the deal: the next time I see a smarmy insult from you,
>> >> directed toward *anyone*, I will post a link to the underhanded, back
>> >> stabbing, gossipy email you sent to me. This will not only embarrass
>> >> you, but also "RA" (as Kubrick might put it ;-> ).
>> >>
>> >> You decide.
>> >>
>> >> Cheers,
>> >> Ozark
>> >
>> >While I'm not privy to exactly what Carl did to [censored] you off, it's just
>> >as bad that you chose to berate him publicly without first bringing up
>> >with him directly, first.
>> >
>> >Your post above is just as egregious as anything he may have done to
>> >you. Sounds like you two need to share apologies and get over
>> >yourselves.
>> >
>> >Fred
>>
>> Dear Fred,
>>
>> I'm baffled, since I haven't mentioned the email that I sent Oz, which
>> was about a completely unrelated thread.
>>
>> He thanked me for warning him about a potential problem, but now he
>> apparently thinks that I've mentioned the matter on the newsgroup,
>> which I haven't.
>>
>
>No, Carl, not "on the newsgroup", but behind the scenes, via private
>email, in what I now understand may be your SOP.
>
>
>> It's odd to receive blackmail threats in public,
>
>"Blackmail"? Hardly. Just a poblic warning shot across the bow of your
>sleazy, backhanded methods. I prefer to operate out in the open, not in
>the shadows.
>
>
>
>> but Oz may just be so
>> confused that he doesn't know what he's doing.
>
>Trust me, I know exactly what I'm doing: exposing a behind-the-scenes
>sleazebag.
>
>
>
>> If he wants to publish
>> my email and his reply, I can't complain.
>>
>
>I am not ashamed of my reply, Carl, it was made in earnest, thinking
>your email was a genuine attempt to be helpful, not the behind the
>scenes character assassination it really was. Are you issusing me an
>invitation to post a link to the email?
>
>> But I hope that he either explains what's going on enough for me to
>> figure out why he's upset, or else figures out that he's grossly
>> mistaken.
>>
>> In any case, I hope that he considers the two other people involved,
>> just as I did.
>>
>
>The "other two people involved" are the only factors that have stayed
>my hand to this point.
>
>
>> If nothing else, we're entertaining everyone.
>>
>
>Are you "entertained", Carl?
Dear Oz,
You wrote:
"It is apparent from reading RBT today that you have breached certain
confidences contained in my private reply to your sole private email
to me."
(Then you issued a bizarre public blackmail threat.)
What did you read on RBT today--from anyone--that made it "apparent"
that I breached whatever "confidences" you imagine were contained in
your private reply?
Here's your private reply in full, barring a name. You thanked me for
taking the trouble to warn you about a problem that another bicycle
dealer had revealed to me. I didn't like doing it, but I'd have felt
bad if I'd said nothing and let you go through the same miserable
experience:
>Hi Carl,
>
>It was always obvious that X "marched to his own drummer", but I
>just naively assumed it was his way of having fun. Now, it is apparent
>something very different is afoot. How sad. Seriously disturbed people
>have miserable lives and more often than not, inflict that misery on
>those around them.
>
>Thanks for the head's up.
>
>Richard
What on earth did you feel you were confiding in me when you thanked
me for giving you a private warning about a wretched problem?
And where did you see your "confidences" being "breached" today on
RBT?
Incidentally, a public blackmail letter is amusing, but not terribly
effective.
Cheers,
Carl Fogel