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  1. After a few comments in various thread about spouses who do or don't
    support your unicycling obsession, I thought we could dedicate a thread
    to it.

    How does your spouse perceive and react to your unicyling?

    As for me, I'm lucky. My excellent wife rolls her eyes a tiny a bit at
    unicycling in general, but completely supports me in this hobby. She
    generously allows time for me to ride (as I do for her running). She
    even lets me temporarily abandon husbandly and fatherly duties
    sometimes to go away on unicycling-related junkets. RTL is obviously a
    huge example.

    I think, since we're both serious exercisers (we met playing ultimate),
    we both understand that endorphin craving and that makes it a
    no-brainer for either of us to let the other "out" to run/ride/play.
    We also both enjoy having a gnarly and fit spouse.😉

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    ...like having your own personal rollercoaster...

    - a few 'uni race write-ups'
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  2. I'm very fortunate as well because my spouse and I are both avid
    ultra-marathoners (we met an event through mutual ultra-running
    friends). She understood that I was feeling really "burned out" from
    running/racing competitively for over 15 years and needed scratch this
    new itch of mine. It has worked out well, often we'll share the same
    trail on a long run; she'll run and I'll muni. Lately she has even
    been learning how to ride a unicycle as well! I've tried to convince
    her it is the perfect cross-training counterpart to our running. And
    over the past year as she's witnessed my running performances starting
    match those of old, all the while mixing in long distance muni, I think
    she's determined to give unicycling a shot. I'm still trying to work
    on her to let me dabble in some more "epic" adventures in the future; I
    think the only way that will work is if I sacrifice some of my running
    epics... No problem there, I really want to take on some muni
    challenges as big as some of the ultra-marathons I've finished.

    On the other hand, it's been a bit more difficult trying to explain the
    large trials course in the front-yard (and garage for rainy days).
    Luckily our house is in a heavily wooded area which sits below and well
    back from the street so neighbors can't really see the strange
    assemblage of logs and things...🙂

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  3. Well, I don't exactly have a spouse (surprise surprise), but my family
    is very supportive. My parents pay 1/2 for everything unicycle-related
    (parts, unis, NAUCC, UNICON). Before I got my license, my parents would
    drive me to practice (a 30 minute drive each way) 3 days a week. My
    sister also encourages me in my riding.

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  4. My girlfirend rides with me 😄

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    Isaac Steiner said:

    an Alex DX32 rim is 38mm wide, so 1 centimeter more is 39mm.

    u•ni•cy•cle
    A vehicle consisting of a frame mounted over a single wheel and usually
    propelled by pedals.
    Related Term(s):
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  5. steveyo said:

    (we met playing ultimate)

    Where did you play - and do you still? I play for Golden Spike, a Salt
    Lake mixed team.

    As far as spousal support, I'm right there with you. My wife and I each
    make sure that the other gets time for exercise. In the summer, mine is
    ultimate and unicycling. Hers is mostly road cycling. In the winter, we
    both do a lot of backcountry skiing together.

    For the benefit of the teenagers - better make this thread include
    parental support.

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  6. My girlfriend makes me go crazy places to unicycle, like Vietnam. That's
    okay..I'm making her go to Africa next year.

    She's also the reason I'm going to RTL. She put together her "womens
    team" for RTL, and I figured I should go too. Unfortunately we'll be
    competing against each other, but I guess a little competition is good
    for a relationship, right?

    corbin

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  7. tmoyer said:

    Where did you play - and do you still? I play for Golden Spike, a Salt
    Lake mixed team....we both do a lot of backcountry skiing together.

    I've played tourney ultimate since 1983, and still play, though mostly
    summer league and masters now. Played in the NE mostly, but a few
    years each in Southern, Central, and Rocky Mtn. regions. I played in
    SLC in 89, 90, 91, while I was, ready for this...-living at the GMD
    lodge at Alta-. I know a guy Aaron Feinberg, you may have played mixed
    with.

    At Alta I lived for the back country skiing. I tried to hike at least
    2000' vertical per day in my last season there. Pfiefferhorn,
    Y-couloir, Wolverine, Superior, Dryfork, even Deseret Peak one time.
    Living at GMD (elev. 8600) and hiking UP from there every day got me
    some good legs and lungs for ultimate down in the valley.

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    steveyo
    ...like having your own personal rollercoaster...

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    (http://home.nycap.rr.com/rduhan/uni_race_writeups/)
    - muni and kokopelli uni 't-shirts, mugs and stickers'
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  8. steveyo said:

    I know a guy Aaron Feinberg, you may have played mixed with.

    Oh yeah - I know Aaron. Was teammates with him in here in 2006.

    You and I almost overlapped in the Wasatch. I moved here in 1994.

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  9. My wife begins to question whether each of my unicycling activities
    requires its own unicycle, but overall she supports my habit. Like
    MuniSano I come from an ultrarunning background, so she's used to my
    endurance events and training. It's not much difference to her whether
    I put on running shoes or a helmet when I head out the door. Most of
    the prep, time away, and aftermath are the same. And she knows it
    keeps me sane and she's got a fit husband with a longer expected
    healthy lifespan at the end of the day.

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  10. My wife supports me in my crazy obsession. She doesn't mind me eating
    into the weekend when we get to spend more time together to go out for
    a few hours of MUni. She has also paid for half of my half b*ke 🙂

    At first she was quite skeptical about the whole Unicyling thing and
    did give me a hard time about spending a lot of time doing it, but the
    more I stick with it the more she supports me which is really great.
    She just questions me wanting to spend more and more money on it
    though. She does have a financial background, so 1 unicycle in her mind
    is good enough.... but .. but..... I need to .... no.... have to get
    that 29'er 🙂 🙂

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    "Take all your overgrown infants away somewhere
    And build them a home, a little place of their own.
    The Fletcher Memorial Home for Incurable Tyrants and Kings."
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  11. My husband supports me.

    As with some other repliers he doesn't really understand why I need a
    garage full of unicycles but I've often found that understanding is
    over rated and I would go for acceptance over understanding any day.

    My husband is not an exerciser. I did try to get both him and my son
    into exercise the we could do together in the early years of our
    marriage. They weren't interested. So I exercise on my own. He does get
    a bit bored when I talk about it though. I can see this glazed
    expression on his face.

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  12. My girlfriend likes the fact that I unicycle. She tried riding a few
    times but has given up on it. She's not too pleased when I say I feel
    like practicing uni instead of getting together with her. In fact, last
    night she was joking about my unicycle obsession, saying she wanted to
    join the forum and start a unicycle widow/widower support group. She
    would have done it too, but wanted to think up a vicious acromym first.

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  13. My wife doesn't give a hoot about unicycling, doesn't care if I
    unicycle, but thinks it a bit odd. She'd dislike if I went and spent
    gobs of money on one, not because it's a unicycle, but because it's
    gobs of money.

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  14. My wife and two young children have been very supportive.

    Especially since I've gone from having a unicycle sit most of the time
    in the closet for 20yrs to having 3 unicycles going non-stop for the
    past two years.

    Its gone from an interest/occassional hobby to a full blown passion.

    I'm very lucky to have their support and understanding.

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  15. To my posting above I should add that my 16 year old son and his friends
    tried riding my uni a month ago, and one of his friends just received
    his 20" Nimbus this week based on his 1 minute on mine! Another
    convert.

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  16. My family is pretty supportive, though my mother occasionally makes a
    comment about me having gone to college, and I came back learning how
    to uni and juggle... Kinda annoying, 'cause I only learned to juggle
    after my muni broke (circus unicycling is boring, street/muni is
    awesome!)

    My wife is very supportive. The friend who introduced us actually
    learned to uni from the Bishop's club I started, and she started riding
    through him... So she was already riding when we started dating!
    She's a little annoyed now though, 'cause she's 8 months pregnant and
    can't go riding with me when I go 😉

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    evil-nick

    Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total
    obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and
    through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see
    its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will
    remain.

    * Bene Gesserit Litany Against Fear.

    I'm late for checkers with the Dalai Lama!

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  17. everyone i know thinks unicycling is a waste of money. the funny thing
    is they go and waste money on things like fast food and all kinds of
    useless [censored].

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  18. catinabag1 said:

    everyone i know thinks unicycling is a waste of money. the funny thing
    is they go and waste money on things like fast food and all kinds of
    useless [censored].

    lol, i've noticed that. makes no sense.

    my wife/ extended family range from quite supportive to trying to grasp
    why i would do such a thing, lol. actually my mother-in-law got me a
    torker lx 20" for christmas, and my wife just learned how to ride it.
    she helps out w/ a camp for highschool age kids one week over the
    summer, and one of her motivations to learn, was to be able to ride
    proficiently so she can take it along and use it to get around the
    camp.

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    Seriously, the other wheel just fell off one day.
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  19. My wife has been very supportive, as have our kids. I spent a large part
    of my life cycling and mountain biking up until back surgery slowed
    things up a few years ago. Unicycling has been like a second chance at
    the kind of stuff I love doing, being out there, rolling along,
    challenging yourself.

    It's been great experience for me personally to get into unicycling,
    but also I think my kids have really enjoyed observing the process, and
    fwiw they seem to have taken something from it, and have been giving
    things a go that they've been shying away from. I hope they give
    unicycling a go too, but I don't push it too hard - if it's their thing
    they will at some point.

    The number of unicycles is bordering on issue with my wife, but hey
    what can you do, it's still way cheaper than MTB. Kudos to the family
    for sure!

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  20. Hard for me to write especially after reading all the posts about
    support.
    But I need to write...

    My husband went through various stages.

    embarrassement.. yes embarrassed that he had a wife who unicycled..

    at one time he thought that it was a fad that would go away

    to delight that it was getting me exercising more

    to amazement that I hadn't given it up YET!

    to puzzlement about why I am so passionate about it

    He's threatened to throw away all my uni's if I so much as get a scrape
    again.

    It doesn't make it easy.
    You all need to thank your spouse today, cause hey.. it could be
    different.

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