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  1. I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but to my
    wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    give her abuse.

    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.

    I don't know the complete story as my wife is still somewhat shaken. She
    had the presence of mind to note down the registration number and knows
    that this driver lives opposite her place of work.

    When she reported the incident to the police, they claimed that there
    was nothing they could do. I am concerned that this driver might now
    think that my wife is fair game.

    Is there any sense in asking the police whether this has been logged in
    case the driver is involved in any further incidents?

    Cheers,
    Luke

    --
    Red Rose Ramblings, the diary of an Essex boy in
    exile in Lancashire <http://www.shrimper.org.uk>

  2. Ekul Namsob said:

    I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but to my
    wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    give her abuse.

    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.

    I don't know the complete story as my wife is still somewhat shaken. She
    had the presence of mind to note down the registration number and knows
    that this driver lives opposite her place of work.

    When she reported the incident to the police, they claimed that there
    was nothing they could do. I am concerned that this driver might now
    think that my wife is fair game.

    Is there any sense in asking the police whether this has been logged in
    case the driver is involved in any further incidents?

    Cheers,
    Luke

    like a lot of things it's probably worth pushing your case.

    roger
    --
    www.rogermerriman.com

  3. On 11 Mar, 18:56, [email hidden] (Ekul

    Namsob) said:

    I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but to my
    wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    give her abuse.

    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.

    I don't know the complete story as my wife is still somewhat shaken. She
    had the presence of mind to note down the registration number and knows
    that this driver lives opposite her place of work.

    When she reported the incident to the police, they claimed that there
    was nothing they could do. I am concerned that this driver might now
    think that my wife is fair game.

    Is there any sense in asking the police whether this has been logged in
    case the driver is involved in any further incidents?

    Cheers,
    Luke

    --
    Red Rose Ramblings, the diary of an Essex boy in
    exile in Lancashire <http://www.shrimper.org.uk>

    What did actually he say to her?

  4. Ekul Namsob said:

    I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but to my
    wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    give her abuse.

    Quoted message said:

    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.

    Eh?

    How would that affect an oncoming driver?

  5. JNugent writtificated

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.

    Eh?

    How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Possibly 'cos it left a relatively narrow gap for him to get past, and he
    didn't want to risk it at 30?

    You feeling okay?

  6. JNugent said:
    Ekul Namsob said:

    I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but to my
    wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    give her abuse.
    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.

    Eh?

    How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Presumably because there were also parked cars on the right hand side
    of the road and not enough room left in the middle for a car and a
    bike? Or the car was behind and there wasn't enough room to overtake
    stationary cars and a slow moving cyclist?

    Seems pretty non-committal from the Police, seeing as you have a
    positive id and an address. From other reports on here, stopping a
    car to dish out abusive behavior has been followed up before (esp. if
    other traffic has been held up as a result).

    Regards,

    Duncan

  7. Mark T said:

    JNugent writtificated

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.


    Eh?

    How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Possibly 'cos it left a relatively narrow gap for him to get past, and he
    didn't want to risk it at 30?

    You feeling okay?

    "Possibly".

    I see.

  8. Duncan Smith said:
    JNugent said:
    Ekul Namsob said:

    I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but to my
    wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    give her abuse.
    The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    to slow down.


    Eh?

    How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Presumably because there were also parked cars on the right hand side
    of the road and not enough room left in the middle for a car and a
    bike? Or the car was behind and there wasn't enough room to overtake
    stationary cars and a slow moving cyclist?

    "Presumably".

  9. JNugent said:
    Duncan Smith said:
    JNugent said:

    Ekul Namsob wrote:
    > I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but
    > to my
    > wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    > give her abuse.
    > The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    > parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    > to slow down.
    Eh?

    How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Presumably because there were also parked cars on the right hand side
    of the road and not enough room left in the middle for a car and a
    bike? Or the car was behind and there wasn't enough room to overtake
    stationary cars and a slow moving cyclist?

    "Presumably".

    Yep its quite common when riding a bike. When there is such a narrow gap
    it is good technique to pull out to narrow the space well before the
    oncoming car passes. This has two advantages. Firstly it lets the
    oncoming car know that he should slow down and secondly it leaves you
    some escape room if he does decide to drive dangerously close and fast.

    However some drivers, particularly the selfish/dangerous ones, interpret
    this as a spiteful attempt to get in their way.

  10. Nick said:


    Yep its quite common when riding a bike. When there is such a narrow gap
    it is good technique to pull out to narrow the space well before the
    oncoming car passes. This has two advantages. Firstly it lets the
    oncoming car know that he should slow down and secondly it leaves you
    some escape room if he does decide to drive dangerously close and fast.

    I see this kind of behaviour almost daily on some roads around here, it
    is particularly annoying when there is not enough room for a car and
    cycle to pass each other, and the car driver pulls out and drives
    straight at me.
    I even had a police van do it the other day.

    Quoted message said:

    However some drivers, particularly the selfish/dangerous ones, interpret
    this as a spiteful attempt to get in their way.

  11. Martin Dann said:

    Nick wrote:

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Yep its quite common when riding a bike. When there is such a narrow
    gap it is good technique to pull out to narrow the space well before
    the oncoming car passes. This has two advantages. Firstly it lets the
    oncoming car know that he should slow down and secondly it leaves you
    some escape room if he does decide to drive dangerously close and fast.

    Quoted message said:

    I see this kind of behaviour almost daily on some roads around here, it
    is particularly annoying when there is not enough room for a car and
    cycle to pass each other, and the car driver pulls out and drives
    straight at me.

    Quoted message said:

    I even had a police van do it the other day.

    Really?

    I can't believe that so many drivers don't know (or don't want to
    follow) the basic rules of the road.

    Something unpleasant is heppening out there (and its effects are by no
    means limited to cyclists).

  12. JNugent writtificated

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    > The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling
    > past parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged
    > the driver to slow down.
    Eh?

    How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Possibly 'cos it left a relatively narrow gap for him to get past,
    and he didn't want to risk it at 30?

    You feeling okay?

    "Possibly".

    I see.

    Are you trying to make a point? What is it?

  13. Mark T said:

    JNugent writtificated

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    >> The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling
    >> past parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged
    >> the driver to slow down.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    > Eh?
    > How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Possibly 'cos it left a relatively narrow gap for him to get past,
    and he didn't want to risk it at 30?
    You feeling okay?

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    "Possibly".
    I see.

    Quoted message said:

    Are you trying to make a point? What is it?

    No, I was asking a question, which was "answered" speculatively by
    someone making assumptions not justified by the data in the OP.

  14. JNugent writtificated

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Are you trying to make a point? What is it?

    No, I was asking a question, which was "answered" speculatively by
    someone making assumptions not justified by the data in the OP.

    That'll be why the answers you got used words like "possibly".

    It was the

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    "Possibly".
    I see.

    bit that confused me. Never mind.

  15. Mark T said:

    JNugent writtificated

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Are you trying to make a point? What is it?

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    No, I was asking a question, which was "answered" speculatively by
    someone making assumptions not justified by the data in the OP.

    Quoted message said:

    That'll be why the answers you got used words like "possibly".

    Quoted message said:

    It was the

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    "Possibly".
    I see.

    Quoted message said:

    bit that confused me. Never mind.

    Fair enough.

  16. JNugent said:

    I can't believe that so many drivers don't know (or don't want to
    follow) the basic rules of the road.

    That's a sweeping statement. Any evidence for your position?

    BugBear

  17. Nick said:
    JNugent said:
    Duncan Smith said:

    On Mar 11, 7:56 pm, JNugent <[email hidden]> wrote:
    > Ekul Namsob wrote:
    >> I'm really, truly annoyed about this as it didn't happen to me but
    >> to my
    >> wife: she was cycling to work today when an oncoming driver stopped to
    >> give her abuse.
    >> The driver appears to have been annoyed that my wife was cycling past
    >> parked cars on the left-hand side of the road and so obliged the driver
    >> to slow down.
    > Eh?
    >
    > How would that affect an oncoming driver?

    Presumably because there were also parked cars on the right hand side
    of the road and not enough room left in the middle for a car and a
    bike? Or the car was behind and there wasn't enough room to overtake
    stationary cars and a slow moving cyclist?

    "Presumably".

    Yep its quite common when riding a bike. When there is such a narrow gap
    it is good technique to pull out to narrow the space well before the
    oncoming car passes. This has two advantages. Firstly it lets the
    oncoming car know that he should slow down and secondly it leaves you
    some escape room if he does decide to drive dangerously close and fast.

    However some drivers, particularly the selfish/dangerous ones, interpret
    this as a spiteful attempt to get in their way.

    From what my favourite woman has told me, this seems to have been the
    case. If I find out otherwise, I'll let you know.

    Cheers,
    Luke

    --
    Red Rose Ramblings, the diary of an Essex boy in
    exile in Lancashire <http://www.shrimper.org.uk>

  18. bugbear said:

    JNugent wrote:

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    I can't believe that so many drivers don't know (or don't want to
    follow) the basic rules of the road.

    Quoted message said:

    That's a sweeping statement. Any evidence for your position?

    Any evidence for my statement that I can't believe it?

    Is that what you're asking me?

    What evidence would you ideally ask for?

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