well if it is of a delicate personal nature we just post it on the forums, you'll find we are all tactful and have experience in this field...refinnej said:im fairly new t this forum. i was wondering if there is anywhere that i can get personal advice, aside from bicycle and health issues.
Don't ask for advice in the soapbox. Someone will put a stick thru your spokes.refinnej said:im fairly new t this forum. i was wondering if there is anywhere that i can get personal advice, aside from bicycle and health issues.
refinnej said:im jennifer. im 23, but have lots of experiences in life and i consider myself a strong person. but there are times where i feel like just giving it all up. well here it goes. i've been in a relationship for seven years. yes, pretty long i know. the issue is that he just cannot stop smoking weed. i mean it may not sound serious but its just tolling on me big time to where i just tend to break down. its everyday and lots of it. i mean its rediculous. i used to smoke too, in college or wuteva, but it just is a waste. we've talked and i gave him an altermatum but he felt like he's too good for altermatums. maybe i was stupid to fold, but we're still together. see, the issue is that its wasting his money, and then he comes to me and others when he's broke. not always, but at times and it gets me tight. very tight. i tell him but he doesnt seem to understand the magnitude of wuts going on with me. maybe he just doesnt get it. see, i know that after a long time together, people tend to fade...but i make sure that that doesnt happen. i hold myself well. i mean im not gorgeous but i know im very pretty and have a good head on my shoulders. im 5'2 an 110lbs. i keep myself good for the interest and it doesnt seem to matter. i dunno but maybe something else is making him not care. i'd appreciate any advice. anything at all. thanx
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