Well there are a lot of things that are not normal that people are in denial about. Normal is a man and a woman that have sex to make a baby. They add to the human race, multiplying. I mean that's what we really exist for to carry on and multiply. When two men together can do this then we can call it normal. Going back to the basics will always give you an answer. Just because society accepts something even if it is a gradual acceptance does not make it normal. Facing something that is not normal in oneself is not the easiest thing to do. An abnormality that is of a sexual nature tends to be the most difficult to control, least of all correct.