"Mike Kruger" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:"Claire Petersky" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Another
consideration: we finally might have to park one of the cars in the
driveway, as we will have in toto: two tandems, two mountain bikes, two
road
Quoted message said:bikes, a hybrid, a beater bike, and a couple of kids bikes.
Got room in the yard for one of those "build it yourself" storage sheds?
Oh goodness, let's not get started on that "shed" thing. I have learned to
smile and nod benignly when my husband starts talking about sheds. Better to
say, "oh, that's nice, dear" when the shed gets proposed -- then he
continues to think vaguely , "one day, I'll build one". If I actually point
out all the problems the shed would bring and the problems it doesn't solve,
he'll think of counterarguments, convince himself of the wonderfulness of
this shed, and actually build one.
Actually, I think the real solution is to store lesser-used bikes in the
basement. We have the room, and then yard space doesn't have to get used up
with a shed.
Quoted message said:Is being too shy to tell people where to go a big problem for you?
There's a difference between telling someone, and simply turning and having
them follow you. For example, two weeks ago we did a 45 mile loop up to
Snohomish. For this loop, on the way back, there was the way I knew for sure
how to go, and then there was the way I suspected would work, but had never
tried. Never even been on that road ever, even in a car. But the way I
suspected would work would shorten our ride by a couple of miles, and my
husband was really beginning to sag, and we still had another 8-9 miles to
go. I mentioned to our friend Steve, who was also riding with us, that I was
planning to go this way I suspected would work Steve's response was, "that's
great Petersky, I have confidence in your ability to get us home." By the
time my husband caught up to us, we were already on this route. When he
figured out that I had now lead us on to a completely untested route, he
looked like I had stuck a knife in his belly. He's someone who really
prefers certainty, and doesn't like me improvising. However, at this point,
we had already invested half a mile into the route -- and lo and behold,
another half mile later, we had linked back up to the road we all knew and
loved. So there. Plus, we didn't have to do the backtracking the way I knew
would have involved. But this did not lessen my husband's sense of betrayal
in me taking him on some way I didn't really know would work.
Now, it's one thing to sneak this sort of thing on him by riding along and
having him follow, but if he's the one steering the bike and I say, "turn
right here", he might start to ask questions, and before you know it, we're
having perhaps a "discussion" on which is the right way to go. And he can
steer the bike how ever he wants, and I'm stuck going along.
Quoted message said:Maybe. Most tandems require you to pedal in lockstep, so you are both
going
Quoted message said:to have the same cadence.
Same cadence, sure, but my experience with tandeming with my kids is that
there's a difference when the stoker is really putting out the power, and
when the stoker is sort of sloughing off, even if the cadence is the same.
So I can loaf for the first 50 miles of a century, and then, pour it on for
the second?
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:o He sings obscene ditties all the time when he rides -- I will not be
able
Quoted message said:to escape these on a tandem!
And the problem would be...?
I'll send you a copy of some sample lyrics, and you can decide.
Quoted message said:One thing that might or might not be a problem: the captain can almost
always hear the stoker, but the reverse isn't true. That might be some
help
Quoted message said:with the ditties.
Ah! This sounds like the perfect situation -- I talk, he pretends to listen!
Warm Regards,
Claire Petersky
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