Is irritability & tiredness after sex normal?

"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have noticed that I get the following
symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under eyes
(looking tired)

Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but

that

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may not be the cause.

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[censored], as this drains the body of vital energies through the semen.

For

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me it seems that a scientific interpretation of this is that the sudden release of semen causes
the male body to suddenly go into a different

state

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and start replacing the lost fluids. We've all heard of the typical male who rolls over and falls
asleep after making love to his wife.

The problem I have is that my girlfriend (and past ones) have all

commented

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honest it does always cause relationship problems for me. (Sometimes it's

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at night - spontaneity is nice!)

So, is this normal?

More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the obvious)

I suspected I might have relatively high levels of Testosterone, which may contribute to this. A
recent test confirmed I was within the normal reference range (8.4 - 28.7 nmol/L), but only just,
at 28.6 nmol/L. Would this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even with

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times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

You are not only barking up the wrong tree, you shouldn't be barking at all, and especially
not at trees.

Go see your doctor. You need allergy medication.

rg

Sorry, I forgot to say, serious replies only please.

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Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have noticed that I get the following
symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under eyes
(looking tired)

Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but

that

Quoted message said:

may not be the cause.

Quoted message said:

[censored], as this drains the body of vital energies through the semen.

For

Quoted message said:

me it seems that a scientific interpretation of this is that the sudden release of semen causes
the male body to suddenly go into a different

state

Quoted message said:

and start replacing the lost fluids. We've all heard of the typical male who rolls over and falls
asleep after making love to his wife.

The problem I have is that my girlfriend (and past ones) have all

commented

Quoted message said:

honest it does always cause relationship problems for me. (Sometimes it's

Quoted message said:

at night - spontaneity is nice!)

So, is this normal?

More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the obvious)

I suspected I might have relatively high levels of Testosterone, which may contribute to this. A
recent test confirmed I was within the normal reference range (8.4 - 28.7 nmol/L), but only just,
at 28.6 nmol/L. Would this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even with

Quoted message said:

times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

Can you elaborate a little on the allergy medicine you suggest? Are you just being funny, or can you
tell me why you think I have an allergy?

Cheers.

"rg" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have

noticed

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

that I get the following symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under eyes
(looking tired)

Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but

that

Quoted message said:

may not be the cause.

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

[censored], as this drains the body of vital energies through the semen.

For

Quoted message said:

me it seems that a scientific interpretation of this is that the sudden release of semen causes
the male body to suddenly go into a different

state

Quoted message said:

and start replacing the lost fluids. We've all heard of the typical

male

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

who rolls over and falls asleep after making love to his wife.

The problem I have is that my girlfriend (and past ones) have all

commented

be

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

honest it does always cause relationship problems for me. (Sometimes

it's

late

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

at night - spontaneity is nice!)

So, is this normal?

More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the obvious)

I suspected I might have relatively high levels of Testosterone, which

may

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

contribute to this. A recent test confirmed I was within the normal reference range (8.4 - 28.7
nmol/L), but only just, at 28.6 nmol/L.

Would

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even

with

10

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times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

You are not only barking up the wrong tree, you shouldn't be barking at

all,

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and especially not at trees.

Go see your doctor. You need allergy medication.

rg

"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Can you elaborate a little on the allergy medicine you suggest? Are you just being funny, or can
you tell me why you think I have an allergy?

Cheers.

"rg" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have

noticed

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

that I get the following symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under
eyes (looking tired)

Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but

that

Quoted message said:

may not be the cause.

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

[censored], as this drains the body of vital energies through the

semen.

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

For

Quoted message said:

me it seems that a scientific interpretation of this is that the

sudden

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

release of semen causes the male body to suddenly go into a different

state

Quoted message said:

and start replacing the lost fluids. We've all heard of the typical

male

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

who rolls over and falls asleep after making love to his wife.

The problem I have is that my girlfriend (and past ones) have all

commented

to

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be

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

honest it does always cause relationship problems for me. (Sometimes

it's

Quoted message said:

late

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

at night - spontaneity is nice!)

So, is this normal?

More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the

obvious)

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

I suspected I might have relatively high levels of Testosterone, which

may

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

contribute to this. A recent test confirmed I was within the normal reference range (8.4 -
28.7 nmol/L), but only just, at 28.6 nmol/L.

Would

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even

with

is

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10

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times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

You are not only barking up the wrong tree, you shouldn't be barking at

all,

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and especially not at trees.

Go see your doctor. You need allergy medication.

rg

I am not being funny.

Tiredness (lethargy) possibly causing your moodiness and irritability Dry Eyes Dark circles
under the eyes

Could be allergy signs and symptoms or something else. If the area under your eyes are also swollen
(edema) then that would be another factor in favor of allergy at your age.

Consult your ear, eye nose and throat physician.

rg

"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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So, is this normal?

No

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More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the obvious)

A good head srink may be able to answer this one.

Would

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this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Yes, you are barking at the wrong thing.

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Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even with

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times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

Fred, you should see someone professional about this. Asking on a NG will only add to your
confusion. Best, mdd

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Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but that may not be the cause.

I`ve heard many comments in the past about the sudden tiredness afterwards - many from my wife who
can`t relax for me snoring :-}

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"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have noticed that I get the following
symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under eyes
(looking tired)

See your doctor and have yourself tested for either a hormonal imbalance. Are you using alcohol or
drugs before these incidents? Get professional medical advice.

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Does that stuff really work?

"suzee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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Anon said:

Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have

noticed

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

that I get the following symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under eyes
(looking tired)

Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but

that

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

may not be the cause.

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

[censored], as this drains the body of vital energies through the semen.

For

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

me it seems that a scientific interpretation of this is that the sudden release of semen causes
the male body to suddenly go into a different

state

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

and start replacing the lost fluids. We've all heard of the typical

male

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

who rolls over and falls asleep after making love to his wife.

The problem I have is that my girlfriend (and past ones) have all

commented

be

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

honest it does always cause relationship problems for me. (Sometimes

it's

late

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

at night - spontaneity is nice!)

So, is this normal?

More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the obvious)

I suspected I might have relatively high levels of Testosterone, which

may

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

contribute to this. A recent test confirmed I was within the normal reference range (8.4 - 28.7
nmol/L), but only just, at 28.6 nmol/L.

Would

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even

with

10

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

Try going to a chinese medicine practioner. All of your symptoms tell me you have an imbalance
which can be easily corrected with acupunture and herbs.

sue

I'm not using alcohol, and 'professional advice' is never as good as sharing people's real life
experiences. I find professionals in the UK to be most dismissive of such matters, and so far
haven't found a cause.

It seems you're all saying one thing though - that it's not normal?

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"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have

noticed

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

that I get the following symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under eyes
(looking tired)

See your doctor and have yourself tested for either a hormonal imbalance. Are you using alcohol or
drugs before these incidents? Get professional medical advice.

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I want my... I want my...

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mdd said:

"Anon" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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So, is this normal?

No

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More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the obvious)

A good head srink may be able to answer this one.

Would

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this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Yes, you are barking at the wrong thing.

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Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even with

Quoted message said:

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times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

Fred, you should see someone professional about this. Asking on a NG will only add to your
confusion. Best, mdd

And the answers he's received so far, have told him to see a healthcare practioner. So not a bad
thing really...

sue

Anon said:

Does that stuff really work?

Yes it does. I worked for an acupunturist and saw a great deal of imrovement in many of our clients.
We had a couple older ladies who'd had strokes, and every week I saw them get stronger and stronger.
One came in a wheelchair for her first visit after the stroke - a few weeks later she was walking on
her own again. It's a little slower acting than Western medicine, but the results go more to the
root of the problem, and are far longer lasting.

sue

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"suzee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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Anon said:

Hi, I'm a healthy 30 year old male, but ever since puberty I have

noticed

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

that I get the following symptoms almost immediately after any form of ejaculation:

Moodiness & Irritability Tiredness (perhaps causing the above) Dry eyes Dark circles under
eyes (looking tired)

Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but

that

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

may not be the cause.

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

[censored], as this drains the body of vital energies through the semen.

For

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

me it seems that a scientific interpretation of this is that the sudden release of semen
causes the male body to suddenly go into a different

state

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

and start replacing the lost fluids. We've all heard of the typical

male

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

who rolls over and falls asleep after making love to his wife.

The problem I have is that my girlfriend (and past ones) have all

commented

Quoted message said:

be

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

honest it does always cause relationship problems for me. (Sometimes

it's

Quoted message said:

late

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

at night - spontaneity is nice!)

So, is this normal?

More importantly, what can be done to stop it? (Other than the obvious)

I suspected I might have relatively high levels of Testosterone, which

may

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

contribute to this. A recent test confirmed I was within the normal reference range (8.4 -
28.7 nmol/L), but only just, at 28.6 nmol/L.

Would

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

this be the cause, or am I barking up the wrong tree?

Incidentally, I find I can be irritable anyway from time to time even

with

Quoted message said:

10

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

times worse than that.

Thanks in advance, on behalf of me, and my girlfriend!

Fred

Try going to a chinese medicine practioner. All of your symptoms tell me you have an imbalance
which can be easily corrected with acupunture and herbs.

sue

Anon said:

I'm not using alcohol, and 'professional advice' is never as good as sharing people's real life
experiences. I find professionals in the UK to be most dismissive of such matters, and so far
haven't found a cause.

It seems you're all saying one thing though - that it's not normal?

Right. So you need to see someone, though I know doctors probably won't be very sympathetic, which
is why I suggested chinese medicine.

sue

"suzee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Anon said:

I'm not using alcohol, and 'professional advice' is never as good as

sharing

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

people's real life experiences. I find professionals in the UK to be

most

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

dismissive of such matters, and so far haven't found a cause.

It seems you're all saying one thing though - that it's not normal?

Right. So you need to see someone, though I know doctors probably won't be very sympathetic, which
is why I suggested chinese medicine.

sue

I agree, sue, and here's why.

Once, when I really wanted some and my American wife was un-sympathetic, I sought out the counsel of
a Chinese woman.

Worked wonders and was WONDERFUL!!

Those chinese really do know their stuff. I highly recommend them.

Beat the hell out of what American women know, that's for sure!

Remind me to tell you about it sometime. Good learning experience for women that want to know about
such things.

rg

rg

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| I am not being funny.

arjee is often amusing, but never funny.

|
| Tiredness (lethargy) possibly causing your moodiness and irritability Dry Eyes Dark circles under
| the eyes
|
| Could be allergy signs and symptoms or something else. If the area
under
| your eyes are also swollen (edema) then that would be another factor
in
| favor of allergy at your age.

Also, consider going to a naturopathic doctor - you might have a "hidden" food allergy, that is, a
low-level allergy to something that's constantly in your diet. For many people, it's often a grain.
Try giving up cereal, bread, and beer for a month.

Tom

Colin Wilson <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

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Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but that may not be the
cause.

I`ve heard many comments in the past about the sudden tiredness afterwards - many from my wife who
can`t relax for me snoring :-}

There is a remote possibility, or not so remote that you could have sleep apnea. I was just
diagnosed with it and now my wife doesn't sleep with the human chainsaw. See your GP and ask him
about a sleep study. All good medicine, GREENFEATHER

ROB said:

Colin Wilson <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Most of the above *appear* to link into sudden onset of tiredness, but that may not be the
cause.

I`ve heard many comments in the past about the sudden tiredness afterwards - many from my wife
who can`t relax for me snoring :-}

There is a remote possibility, or not so remote that you could have sleep apnea. I was just
diagnosed with it and now my wife doesn't sleep with the human chainsaw. See your GP and ask him
about a sleep study. All good medicine, GREENFEATHER

He didn't mention really loud snoring, which is a major symptom of sleep apnea. Along with being
unable to stay awake during the daytime, and waking up feeling like the dead, or that you hadn't
slept in months. Which a person with sleep apnea usually hasn't. It might not hurt to check it out,
but I don't think it's a problem for him.

sue

Tom Allen said:

"rg" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...
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| I am not being funny.

arjee is often amusing, but never funny.

|
| Tiredness (lethargy) possibly causing your moodiness and irritability Dry Eyes Dark circles
| under the eyes
|
| Could be allergy signs and symptoms or something else. If the area
under
| your eyes are also swollen (edema) then that would be another factor
in
| favor of allergy at your age.

Also, consider going to a naturopathic doctor - you might have a "hidden" food allergy, that is, a
low-level allergy to something that's constantly in your diet. For many people, it's often a
grain. Try giving up cereal, bread, and beer for a month.

Or dairy. With the dark circles around your eyes, it's dairy, especially if you're of
European ancestry.

sue

rg said:

"suzee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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Anon said:

I'm not using alcohol, and 'professional advice' is never as good as

sharing

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Quoted message said:

people's real life experiences. I find professionals in the UK to be

most

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

dismissive of such matters, and so far haven't found a cause.

It seems you're all saying one thing though - that it's not normal?

Right. So you need to see someone, though I know doctors probably won't be very sympathetic,
which is why I suggested chinese medicine.

sue

I agree, sue, and here's why.

Once, when I really wanted some and my American wife was un-sympathetic, I sought out the counsel
of a Chinese woman.

Worked wonders and was WONDERFUL!!

Those chinese really do know their stuff. I highly recommend them.

Beat the hell out of what American women know, that's for sure!

Remind me to tell you about it sometime. Good learning experience for women that want to know
about such things.

rg,

THpppppttt!!!! :Þ

sue

"suzee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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"suzee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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Anon wrote:
>
> I'm not using alcohol, and 'professional advice' is never as good as

sharing

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> people's real life experiences. I find professionals in the UK to

be

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most

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> dismissive of such matters, and so far haven't found a cause.
>
> It seems you're all saying one thing though - that it's not normal?

Right. So you need to see someone, though I know doctors probably

won't

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be very sympathetic, which is why I suggested chinese medicine.

sue

I agree, sue, and here's why.

Once, when I really wanted some and my American wife was un-sympathetic,

I

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sought out the counsel of a Chinese woman.

Worked wonders and was WONDERFUL!!

Those chinese really do know their stuff. I highly recommend them.

Beat the hell out of what American women know, that's for sure!

Remind me to tell you about it sometime. Good learning experience for

women

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that want to know about such things.

rg,

THpppppttt!!!! :Þ

sue

🙂 Truth hurts.

rg