Joining January Challenge

JC Der Koenig said:

So you finally figured out I'm in great physical shape.

It took you quite a long time.

I could careless about your physical shape, it your "mental" shape
that's in question. I won't say your "physical" shape is great by any
means either. Once again you are trying to side-step your issues.

I couldn't care less about your opinion.

HTH

--
Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber than that. -- MFW

"Bunky42" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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JC Der Koenig said:

So you finally figured out I'm in great physical shape.

It took you quite a long time.

I could careless about your physical shape, it your "mental" shape that's
in question. I won't say your "physical" shape is great by any means
either. Once again you are trying to side-step your issues.

I couldn't care less about your opinion.

HTH

--
Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber than that. -- MFW

"Bunky42" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:

JC Der Koenig said:

So you finally figured out I'm in great physical shape.

It took you quite a long time.

I could careless about your physical shape, it your "mental" shape that's
in question. I won't say your "physical" shape is great by any means
either. Once again you are trying to side-step your issues.

Hi Jaime,

Jaime said:

It would be nice if he would believe my apologies were indeed
sincere but I it will probably never happen or if it does I will
never know
about it.

I'm sorry to go on and on about this so much but it really bothers
me. I *never* should have acted like that in this group and mainly
towards a person I deeply cared about. Someone I still care about.

I can move on but those actions will haunt me for life.

Some mistakes do. Most people probably have something in their past
they'd give a lot to undo. I know I do.
It isn't always possible to right past wrongs though, so the only
thing one can do in those circumstances is take the lessons learned
and apply them to the future. It won't make the scar go away, but
time will fade it if you let it.

Take care,
Carmen

Hi Jaime,

Jaime said:

It would be nice if he would believe my apologies were indeed
sincere but I it will probably never happen or if it does I will
never know
about it.

I'm sorry to go on and on about this so much but it really bothers
me. I *never* should have acted like that in this group and mainly
towards a person I deeply cared about. Someone I still care about.

I can move on but those actions will haunt me for life.

Some mistakes do. Most people probably have something in their past
they'd give a lot to undo. I know I do.
It isn't always possible to right past wrongs though, so the only
thing one can do in those circumstances is take the lessons learned
and apply them to the future. It won't make the scar go away, but
time will fade it if you let it.

Take care,
Carmen

Why do you care at all about JC? Is it your calling to save us all from
ourselves (according to your standards)? It seems to me that you could find
a much better use for your time than babbling nonsensical replies to every
JC post, like a nice run around the block.

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Bunky42 <[email hidden]> stated
| JC Der Koenig wrote:
|| So you finally figured out I'm in great physical shape.
||
|| It took you quite a long time.
||
|
| I could careless about your physical shape, it your "mental" shape
| that's in question. I won't say your "physical" shape is great by any
| means either. Once again you are trying to side-step your issues.

Excellent question.

;-)

--
Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber than that. -- MFW

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Why do you care at all about JC? Is it your calling to save us all from
ourselves (according to your standards)? It seems to me that you could
find
a much better use for your time than babbling nonsensical replies to every
JC post, like a nice run around the block.

In news:nFqCd.49136$Cl3.4357@fed1read03,
Bunky42 <[email hidden]> stated
| JC Der Koenig wrote:
|| So you finally figured out I'm in great physical shape.
||
|| It took you quite a long time.
||
|
| I could careless about your physical shape, it your "mental" shape
| that's in question. I won't say your "physical" shape is great by any
| means either. Once again you are trying to side-step your issues.

FOB said:

Why do you care at all about JC? Is it your calling to save us all from
ourselves (according to your standards)? It seems to me that you could find
a much better use for your time than babbling nonsensical replies to every
JC post, like a nice run around the block.

Considering this has nothing to do with you, Why do you even get
involved? If you want to be passive and let JC step all over you "so be
it", it's your life. Sounds like you need to update your killfile. Here
just add this to your filter: [email hidden] or maybe replace JC's
address with mine, since you seem to like his belittling responses.

JC doesn't step all over me. In fact, he rarely says anything derogatory to
me, I figure that is probably because I don't whine and his attacks are
generally directed at whiners. And even if he does throw a barb my way, it
doesn't bother me, I am pretty impervious to criticism. But I do find you
totally annoying. It does have something to do with me as I read the group
and I am certainly as entitled to criticize you as you are to criticize him.

In news:FDGCd.50938$Cl3.15575@fed1read03,
Bunky42 <[email hidden]> stated
||
| Considering this has nothing to do with you, Why do you even get
| involved? If you want to be passive and let JC step all over you "so
| be it", it's your life. Sounds like you need to update your killfile.
| Here just add this to your filter: [email hidden] or maybe
| replace JC's address with mine, since you seem to like his belittling
| responses.

FOB said:

JC doesn't step all over me. In fact, he rarely says anything derogatory to
me, I figure that is probably because I don't whine and his attacks are
generally directed at whiners. And even if he does throw a barb my way, it
doesn't bother me, I am pretty impervious to criticism. But I do find you
totally annoying. It does have something to do with me as I read the group
and I am certainly as entitled to criticize you as you are to criticize him.

In news:FDGCd.50938$Cl3.15575@fed1read03,
Bunky42 <[email hidden]> stated
||
| Considering this has nothing to do with you, Why do you even get
| involved? If you want to be passive and let JC step all over you "so
| be it", it's your life. Sounds like you need to update your killfile.
| Here just add this to your filter: [email hidden] or maybe
| replace JC's address with mine, since you seem to like his belittling
| responses.

Thanks

FOB said:

JC doesn't step all over me. In fact, he rarely says anything derogatory to
me, I figure that is probably because I don't whine and his attacks are
generally directed at whiners. And even if he does throw a barb my way, it
doesn't bother me, I am pretty impervious to criticism. But I do find you
totally annoying. It does have something to do with me as I read the group
and I am certainly as entitled to criticize you as you are to criticize him.

Let me reread you previous post again then. Hmmmm sound like whining to
me. Looks like a case of calling the kettle black. If your so impervious
to criticism why respond then? Also if I'm not entitled to criticize,
why are you entitled? Like I said feel free to add my address to your
killfile or is it broken?.

FOB said:

Why do you care at all about JC? Is it your calling to save us all from
ourselves (according to your standards)? It seems to me that you

could find

Quoted message said:

a much better use for your time than babbling nonsensical replies to

every

Quoted message said:

JC post, like a nice run around the block.

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

Worse even, I did something in a drunken stuppor around a very good
friend (or so I thought). This caused her to completely stop
associating with me. I honestly have no idea what happened and she
refuses to discuss it with me. I know it didn't involve sex or drugs
or anything illegal...but short of that I have NO idea. Talk about
embarrassing!!!

Kindly don't beat yourself up. You may get a call from her one day, when
she realizes that *everybody* has been stoopid some time in their lives.
Somehow, when you contemplate your own gaffes, it's so much easier to
forgive others for theirs. :-)

Not that I ever made any. Oh, no. Not me. :-)

Chakolate

Thanks, Chakolate!

I do continue to send her messages and cards now and again. I heard from a
mutual friend that her husband is sadly very ill. Cancer. They have had a
rough few years.

I keep them in my thoughts and prayers.

I am saddened by our loss of friendship but I don't feel guilty (since I am
not sure what it was that I did). LOL!

Carol Ann
www.lowcarblosers.com ~ Home of the Monthly Weightloss Challenge!!

You clearly don't understand the definition of whining. As for why I
respond, because this is entertainment for me. I enjoy verbal sparring (I
am a retired lawyer, maybe that explains it some.) And it seems strange
that you wonder why I respond when you keep up a running conversation with
JC. Why do you do that? Clearly you are not have any luck in changing his
behavior.

I don't killfile people as I enjoy the view of human behavior that reading
the messages of twits gives me.

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Bunky42 <[email hidden]> stated
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| Let me reread you previous post again then. Hmmmm sound like whining
| to me. Looks like a case of calling the kettle black. If your so
| impervious to criticism why respond then? Also if I'm not entitled to
| criticize,
| why are you entitled? Like I said feel free to add my address to your
| killfile or is it broken?.
|

"Carol Ann" <[email hidden]> wrote in
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I am saddened by our loss of friendship but I don't feel guilty (since
I am not sure what it was that I did). LOL!

That does help keep the guilt at bay, doesn't it? <g>

Chakolate

--
It's not always easy to frame non-offensive replies when one's scope is
limited by one's experience.
--Marilee in ND, posted to alt.support.menopause

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

I am saddened by our loss of friendship but I don't feel guilty (since
I am not sure what it was that I did). LOL!

That does help keep the guilt at bay, doesn't it? <g>

Chakolate

Yes it does!!

Carol Ann
www.lowcarblosers.com ~ Home of the Monthly Weightloss Challenge!!

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

I am saddened by our loss of friendship but I don't feel guilty (since
I am not sure what it was that I did). LOL!

That does help keep the guilt at bay, doesn't it? <g>

Chakolate

Yes it does!!

Carol Ann
www.lowcarblosers.com ~ Home of the Monthly Weightloss Challenge!!