[Interleaved quoting: please read to end for all comments] Burton Figg wrote in uk.rec.cycling:
about: Motivation for cycling
Quoted message said:So my point? My wife was talking to me yesterday and said she has heard it said that often keen
cyclists have had overbearing and bullying fathers. I'm not after gory details, since it is not my
place to ask for them and I wouldn't be so rude.
Interesting. Where did your wife hear this from?
There's possibly a grain of truth in this. Yes, my dad was somewhat authoritarian and bullying, and
yes I did get into cycling.
But it might have also been due to the fact that (and this is the only good thing going for the
smalltown hell where I grew up) that I had some good countryside on my doorstep and in 15 minutes I
could be right out in the countryside in the fields, and further away, forests and hills.
Of course, it could also have been that due to being bullied I had no self-confidence and therefore
was very shy about making friends (not helped by living practically on the edge of town and on a
one-sided street only having a couple of immediate neighbours with children) and a good 15 minutes
walk to the nearest other children, and therefore there wasn't a lot else I could do, and it get
provide me with an opportunity to get out, and away, to do something interesting in peace.
Also notwithstanding that, bar a golf course and tennis court, there were absolutely no
leisure/social facilities in the town whatsoever, and no, it wasn't even big enough to have a proper
streetcorner to hang out on..
If there's any truth in this theory, it might go some way to explain why the various organisations
of the cycling world often fall out with each other? If we've been bullied by our parents it tends
to make you somewhat distrusting of others in general, and then if communications break down it can
be harder to bridge the divides again..
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