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Andrew
Guest
Hi all,
So, I think this topic has been posted before, but I
wanted to get some fresh answers to the topic of how
real some of these problems are that dentists claim
that you have.
Last week, I went to a new dentist on a new barebones
limited insurance I have (only covers dental exam, not
even basis prophylaxis), and I came out with a
recommendation that I needed $3000 of dental work to fix
my supposedly god awful horrible teeth. I've had this
story unloaded on me before, and it is really truly nerve-
wrecking since you never know if they are telling the
truth or not.
The problem is that the dentist's bread and butter is made
by telling you you have crappy teeth - and if they think
you have money (I am not wealthy, but I drive a nice car
and wear nice clothes) I am sure they use this to decide
what is "wrong" with me.
Here are the problems given - I'd like a honest and frank
opinion from any qualified prof's on the board who have a
better conscience and no need to worry about making a buck
off of me:
1) Impacted wisdom teeth pull - I have 2 impacted wisdom
teeth and I have had 3 past dentists claim that this can
cause tartar buildup inside and next to the adjoining
tooth and have had suggestions to have them pulled along
with the top two. What is the truth? Is this is a
medical danger?
2) Deep cleaning - I have been told in the last two visits
that I am not flossing enough and that my tooth pockets
have gotten too big and need deep cleaning. I don't feel
any particular pain, although I will admit, I do have a
mild tinginess in my gums because I went a few weeks
without flossing (my mistake) and my gums have become
really soft, so when I floss now, my gums bleed. However,
I'm back on a daily floss plan - do I really need a deep
clean? Is there some way I can tell myself how bad my
teeth are? What is the truth? Is this a medical danger?
3) Cavities - 4 dentists ago, I had no cavities. 3 dentists
ago, nearly every tooth had a cavity. I did nothing about
it. 2 dentists ago, I had no cavities once again. Last
week, I had 4 cavities, one requiring a root canal and
crown. Quite ironically, it happens that 2 of the
cavities are on my wisdom tooth so the dentist
recommended its all the more reason to have them pulled!
Which is interesting, because in one sentence she said
food rarely goes back to the rear of the teeth so I
shouldn't feel bad about having them pulled, and in the
next one she is saying that I have cavities back there. I
use a home flouride treatment periodically and have
generally not had any particular sensitivity to foods
except for extreme cold and hot (which I think everyone
has). Is there some way I can tell myself how bad my
teeth are? What is the truth? Is this a medical danger?
I appreciate any guidance, self-checks, home therapies, that
you can suggest. I don't want to damage my teeth beyond
repair, but then again, if it weren't for the dentist,
looking at my teeth in the mirror, the only thing I can spot
visually is a) my back teeth are in fact impacted but I
don't know if that's really a problem and b) my gums have
softened because I was off the flossing for a while, so they
bleed when I floss now, again, I don't know if that's
fixable by just resuming the flossing.
Please provide any advice you have. Thanks.
So, I think this topic has been posted before, but I
wanted to get some fresh answers to the topic of how
real some of these problems are that dentists claim
that you have.
Last week, I went to a new dentist on a new barebones
limited insurance I have (only covers dental exam, not
even basis prophylaxis), and I came out with a
recommendation that I needed $3000 of dental work to fix
my supposedly god awful horrible teeth. I've had this
story unloaded on me before, and it is really truly nerve-
wrecking since you never know if they are telling the
truth or not.
The problem is that the dentist's bread and butter is made
by telling you you have crappy teeth - and if they think
you have money (I am not wealthy, but I drive a nice car
and wear nice clothes) I am sure they use this to decide
what is "wrong" with me.
Here are the problems given - I'd like a honest and frank
opinion from any qualified prof's on the board who have a
better conscience and no need to worry about making a buck
off of me:
1) Impacted wisdom teeth pull - I have 2 impacted wisdom
teeth and I have had 3 past dentists claim that this can
cause tartar buildup inside and next to the adjoining
tooth and have had suggestions to have them pulled along
with the top two. What is the truth? Is this is a
medical danger?
2) Deep cleaning - I have been told in the last two visits
that I am not flossing enough and that my tooth pockets
have gotten too big and need deep cleaning. I don't feel
any particular pain, although I will admit, I do have a
mild tinginess in my gums because I went a few weeks
without flossing (my mistake) and my gums have become
really soft, so when I floss now, my gums bleed. However,
I'm back on a daily floss plan - do I really need a deep
clean? Is there some way I can tell myself how bad my
teeth are? What is the truth? Is this a medical danger?
3) Cavities - 4 dentists ago, I had no cavities. 3 dentists
ago, nearly every tooth had a cavity. I did nothing about
it. 2 dentists ago, I had no cavities once again. Last
week, I had 4 cavities, one requiring a root canal and
crown. Quite ironically, it happens that 2 of the
cavities are on my wisdom tooth so the dentist
recommended its all the more reason to have them pulled!
Which is interesting, because in one sentence she said
food rarely goes back to the rear of the teeth so I
shouldn't feel bad about having them pulled, and in the
next one she is saying that I have cavities back there. I
use a home flouride treatment periodically and have
generally not had any particular sensitivity to foods
except for extreme cold and hot (which I think everyone
has). Is there some way I can tell myself how bad my
teeth are? What is the truth? Is this a medical danger?
I appreciate any guidance, self-checks, home therapies, that
you can suggest. I don't want to damage my teeth beyond
repair, but then again, if it weren't for the dentist,
looking at my teeth in the mirror, the only thing I can spot
visually is a) my back teeth are in fact impacted but I
don't know if that's really a problem and b) my gums have
softened because I was off the flossing for a while, so they
bleed when I floss now, again, I don't know if that's
fixable by just resuming the flossing.
Please provide any advice you have. Thanks.