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On 16 Aug 2005 05:46:00 -0700, Cindy Hamilton wrote:
>
> sf wrote:
> > On Mon, 15 Aug 2005 20:37:00 -0500, Melba's Jammin' wrote:
> >
> > > ?? That's exactly what she said she does NOT want to do -- she does
> > > not want to pay for someone else's drinks. She wants separate checks.
> >
> > Separate checks is just plain stupid. How clearly can I say it? When
> > you go out with a group, be prepared to split the check evenly. If
> > the restaurant doesn't do separate checks, ONE person puts it on
> > his/her card and collects equal amounts from everyone else. If you
> > don't drink or have appetizers/dessert but someone else ordered it,
> > you split the total anyway. That's what REAL friends do.
>
> But what do real ACQUAINTANCES do? Like others, I see no need to
> pay for a co-worker's appetizer, beer, whatever.
>
> > When people watch the bottem line so closely that a few dollars spent
> > having fun with friends makes a difference, they should entertain at
> > home instead - so they can control their costs without looking like a
> > cheapskate.
>
> Not every group restaurant experience is "having fun with friends".
> My usual experience is an obligatory going-away lunch or some such.
>
>
Answer: If it bothers you so much, don't go. It's not an obligation,
unless of course, you don't have a social life and going to large
banquetlike functions in restaurants is your idea of fun. If so,
quityerbitchen.
>
> sf wrote:
> > On Mon, 15 Aug 2005 20:37:00 -0500, Melba's Jammin' wrote:
> >
> > > ?? That's exactly what she said she does NOT want to do -- she does
> > > not want to pay for someone else's drinks. She wants separate checks.
> >
> > Separate checks is just plain stupid. How clearly can I say it? When
> > you go out with a group, be prepared to split the check evenly. If
> > the restaurant doesn't do separate checks, ONE person puts it on
> > his/her card and collects equal amounts from everyone else. If you
> > don't drink or have appetizers/dessert but someone else ordered it,
> > you split the total anyway. That's what REAL friends do.
>
> But what do real ACQUAINTANCES do? Like others, I see no need to
> pay for a co-worker's appetizer, beer, whatever.
>
> > When people watch the bottem line so closely that a few dollars spent
> > having fun with friends makes a difference, they should entertain at
> > home instead - so they can control their costs without looking like a
> > cheapskate.
>
> Not every group restaurant experience is "having fun with friends".
> My usual experience is an obligatory going-away lunch or some such.
>
>
Answer: If it bothers you so much, don't go. It's not an obligation,
unless of course, you don't have a social life and going to large
banquetlike functions in restaurants is your idea of fun. If so,
quityerbitchen.