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Quoted message said:On Thu, 16 Dec 2004 00:56:03 GMT, Tom <[email hidden]> wrote:
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> I am still on low carb, but there is a lot of peer pressure to
relax
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> about my Nazi-like attitude about it. I think that if I relax too
much,
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:I'll
Quoted message said:> go back to eating too much because of hunger.
If you go off LC, and want to control your weight, you must limit how
much you eat.
Yes. I would then have to count calories.
Not necessary count -- I never counted calories except for a few test
days -- but limit them, yes.
I think I know what you are saying.
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Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> But you are right, if I do
> ever decide that eating at an increased carb level causes hunger to
be
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Quoted message said:> unpleasant I could always become more strict.
Yes. Experiment with adding carbs from vegs first. Add them slowly.
Otherwise it is too easy to lose control, as others report.
My recent choice has been the inclusion of beans and lentils in
limited
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:amounts because of the higher fiber values. I like to also cut up a
carrot
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adding is
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oranges as my dessert during this holiday season. I'll have to try and
limit
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:what I include because I also want to see if these additions have any
affect
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:on my former problems of shoulder joint pain(minor), and acid reflux.
Would be an interesting experiment.
Yes. I won't overdo it on any additions. I am very happy at this point
that I have good sleeps from the absence of the acid reflux. I would not
want to risk having it return.
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> Recently I have included beans occasionally to my list of
allowable
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> foods. Our homemade chili does not look like regular chili, as the
amount of
Quoted message said:> beans is small. It is largely chunks of cut up steak or roast with
some
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> added onions, celery, and green pepper, spices and A1 steak sauce,
tomato
Quoted message said:> sauce. I try to add little amounts of any higher carb item and see if
there
Quoted message said:> is any noticable affect in new recipes.
> The amounts that are included still don't satisfy what my friends
would
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Are your friends naturally thin, still fat, or thin because they lost
weight? Unless they are the latter, they will not understand you. I
would not try too hard to satisfy them, and, also, they will respect
you if you stick to your guns.
I am the slimmer than most everyone in my age range(46). These guys
have
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:basically tried all the weightloss diets without success and have
basically
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:concluded that this is there fate. They do understand about calories in
and
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:out and the value of exercise, but find it too hard to stick with any
plan.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:The few that have tried lo-carb have resumed their former diets and the
weight has come back. There is only one other guy in my age category
that
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:remains successful, actually 2 years longer than me. He only discusses
the
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:diet with me because I am in agreement. His problem is similar to mine.
He
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:will eat more carbs at work, while at home he eats more strict. I can
see
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Then maybe you can write off their reaction as envy of sorts.
If it is true, it would explain alot.
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Quoted message said:The younger guys I would have thought to be more open about it. But
they
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:are more naturally thin and don't understand about trying to lose
weight. Of
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:course, it's because they are young and don't have those problems yet. I
was
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:just like them at a younger age. If someone would have told me that I
would
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I believe that in another 10 years, these guys will go through the
same
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of
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My thought exactly. I doubt that your weight defines a big part of
your relationship with your friends, so, you can continue your own
thing and be their good friend.
Your probably right.
Quoted message said:
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> It is still to obvious to them that I am eating
> lo-carb.
So, you are slim, healthy, lost weight, and eating low carb. Sounds
good to me.
It seems odd to me that on one hand a person could say, "Hey you
look great", and aknowledge the health benefits. Then the next day
say that the style of eating is wrong and be concerned about my long
term health. Do they think I'm trading good health benefits now for
worse health later?
It is very difficult to overcome deeply embedded myths.
True.
Quoted message said:
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:I think that after a while, your friends may learn something from you.
Other than peer pressure to conform, I have no problems at all with
the
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:diet. Your right. They can learn from me, but I will have to set an
example
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:and wait a few years. They have agreed that all the sugar they were
eating
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remember
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:my experiences. Talk is cheap. It's results that everyone wants to see.
Yes, talk is very cheap and results are the only thing that matters.
Thanks for your insight Ig.
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