sarah bennett said:I have never understood the rationale for not eating flour on passover
when you don't keep kosher. Or "keeping kosher" but not actually
following the rules.
There needn't be a rationale. How about people who go to church some
Sundays but not every Sunday or people who purport to be religious but
who lie, cheat and steal? I rather admire people who experiment with
different religious practices such as following some kosher laws but not
all of them until they find a level of observance that suits them. It
makes sense to me to continue thinking about religion, spirituality,
your own beliefs and your own practices throughout your life while
learning and growing. I don't expect my religious practices to make
sense to the next person. I'm sure someone else would accuse me of
being terribly inconsistent, but it works for me.
Let me go out on a limb here and wonder if part of the problem is when
someone expects you to accomodate their religious practices when you
can't make heads or tails of them. I know it used to drive me crazy
when I had customers who told me how they were strict vegetarians and
were adamant that I give them special food, but when I gave them exactly
what they wanted, they'd still complain. I'd find that they weren't that
careful when they were cooking, only when I was. When it comes to that,
I try to become dispassionate: Just tell the truth about what
ingredients I've used and let decide how they feel about it. Thus with
bringing dessert to a Passover seder. I checked with the hosts and
brought a dessert that used no dairy and no grain. I was only sorry
that they prefered the dry, tasteless, wheatless, eggy, spongecake.
--Lia