One thing that pizzes me off! I'm riding with Gina on Sunday. We pass some dude and he takes our wheel. WE ARE WEARING MASKS AND HE IS NOT!
I actually get tired of riding with my wife and some uninvited cyclist hops on. C'mon man, we're doing our own thing, get lost! I don't know, if a rider goes around me, have fun. I don't feel the need to prove anything by keeping up. Not to mention, I feel like a wimp if I can't do my own work.
That's the way I feel. I have done a ton of organized rides of which I ride alone. If I do a 5.75 hour century, it is because I did it. I don't like the wimpy feeling of saying I did a 5.5 hour century sucking wheel for 100 miles.
But on this day, I am riding with my wife just enjoying our time together. Some dude we pass hops on our wheel and latched on like a maggot. So I look back at him, no mask, no protection, don't know the guy and don't really want him ruining my alone time with my wife.
So I look back and tell the guy,"if you're going to go around, go ahead, I want to ride alone with my wife!".
He says,"it's OK, I'll just stay back here.".
"No you won't go around, I already told you I want to ride alone with my wife!".
Oh, it's OK, I'll just stay back here!
C'mon dude, are you not paying attention to what I'm saying?
I'll just stay back here!


So I slow way up, move far right and let the guy go. So he passes me and says,"oh, you're going to force me to go ahead? OK!".
I just slowed down and let the moron go ahead. Thankfully he turned off about a mile later.
OK, I don't understand why other cyclists can not respect the wishes of those around them. Few times I have told somebody to drop off our wheel and they won't. Always some argument as to why they shouldn't have to leave us alone. There have been several times that I have had to get nasty with the other guy just to get him the F off my/our wheel.
One time we were riding alone a few days after Gina's Dad passed away. Just a ride to cheer her up, clear her mind, reminisce, and talk a little remembering her Dad.
Some moron hopped on as we passed. He sprinted off after about 1/4 mile then faded, then repeated the sprint. Making a game out of it I guess but we were far from trying to race the guy. Finally I asked the guy to leave us alone as we were out to do our thing. He started to argue explaining why he should be able to draft us.
No dude! GTF out of here before I get nasty, I already told you once and I don't feel I need to explain to you why we want to be alone.
I swear! For one thing, I never invade anyone's space, ride, or invited myself to take a stranger's wheel. So that is a negative in my book right off the bat. Then when someone asks you to leave them be on their own, there is no need to argue or try to explain why they should allow you to interrupt their ride.
Just get lost! I'm sure they told you kindly for a reason. Respect that before things get nasty.
I actually get tired of riding with my wife and some uninvited cyclist hops on. C'mon man, we're doing our own thing, get lost! I don't know, if a rider goes around me, have fun. I don't feel the need to prove anything by keeping up. Not to mention, I feel like a wimp if I can't do my own work.
That's the way I feel. I have done a ton of organized rides of which I ride alone. If I do a 5.75 hour century, it is because I did it. I don't like the wimpy feeling of saying I did a 5.5 hour century sucking wheel for 100 miles.
But on this day, I am riding with my wife just enjoying our time together. Some dude we pass hops on our wheel and latched on like a maggot. So I look back at him, no mask, no protection, don't know the guy and don't really want him ruining my alone time with my wife.
So I look back and tell the guy,"if you're going to go around, go ahead, I want to ride alone with my wife!".
He says,"it's OK, I'll just stay back here.".
"No you won't go around, I already told you I want to ride alone with my wife!".
Oh, it's OK, I'll just stay back here!
C'mon dude, are you not paying attention to what I'm saying?
I'll just stay back here!
So I slow way up, move far right and let the guy go. So he passes me and says,"oh, you're going to force me to go ahead? OK!".
I just slowed down and let the moron go ahead. Thankfully he turned off about a mile later.
OK, I don't understand why other cyclists can not respect the wishes of those around them. Few times I have told somebody to drop off our wheel and they won't. Always some argument as to why they shouldn't have to leave us alone. There have been several times that I have had to get nasty with the other guy just to get him the F off my/our wheel.
One time we were riding alone a few days after Gina's Dad passed away. Just a ride to cheer her up, clear her mind, reminisce, and talk a little remembering her Dad.
Some moron hopped on as we passed. He sprinted off after about 1/4 mile then faded, then repeated the sprint. Making a game out of it I guess but we were far from trying to race the guy. Finally I asked the guy to leave us alone as we were out to do our thing. He started to argue explaining why he should be able to draft us.
No dude! GTF out of here before I get nasty, I already told you once and I don't feel I need to explain to you why we want to be alone.
I swear! For one thing, I never invade anyone's space, ride, or invited myself to take a stranger's wheel. So that is a negative in my book right off the bat. Then when someone asks you to leave them be on their own, there is no need to argue or try to explain why they should allow you to interrupt their ride.
Just get lost! I'm sure they told you kindly for a reason. Respect that before things get nasty.