i shave, too, but when i wear bike shorts (not when I wear other kinds of shorts) I get ingrown hairs but not wearing bike shorts i get numb and it does cut my sex drive. i was told recently not to wear anything under the shorts. that seems a little odd and i haven't tried it because i am currently recovering from an injury. any suggestions (am i wearing the wrong types of shorts, etc) oh and i have a selle italia seat with the cut out no gel thanks